There comes a time when the broad brush of life paints a truth that cannot be denied. For a father and son, that occurred at an AFL match.
Sydney born and bred, both of the rough western suburbs, they had ventured into alien territory, sullen and confused at the injustice of the Superleague war that had ruined their beloved game of rugby league.
More than a game.
The son was the third generation to have striven, shed blood, rejoiced and despaired over the simple folly of trying to place a pigskin across an opponent’s line. And in that sometimes brutal process, he learned more of himself: some of it good, much of it sobering.
He was not to know it then, but he would beget a new generation that would follow in his footsteps. It is a story that mirrors the experience of countless Australians.
But on this day, the pair made up the numbers on an unfamiliar, windswept hill.
They tried to set compass bearings among strange colours, meaningless placards, inexplicable chants. The match began, the cheers went up.
They were initially captivated.
There was a lot of running, the ball spilled everywhere, the long kicking drew a whistle of appreciation from the old man. There was plenty of scoring. A bit like basketball. They waited for a soaring catch like the song promised.
And then one – the father or the son, it is forgotten now – glanced at the clock.
Want a beer?
Yeah, I’ll get it. Stay here, you don’t want to miss anything.
It had cost a bit to get in..
They sipped bravely on their grog trying hard to maintain interest as an icy breeze played about exposed ears and noses.
That was a nice bit of skill, that bloke that punched the ball to his mate.
Yep.
They kick pretty good don’t they.
Yep.
An uncomfortable pause.
Had enough?
Yep.
They’d only made it to half time. In fact, it was their second game of AFL. They’d lasted to three quarter time at their first.
It was a dud game, they thought, you get that in all sports. They’d give it another go.
With sadness, they trudged from the ground a second time. They exchanged looks with mystified AFL expats. Football followers all, separated by an unbridgeable chasm.
The father and son had tried hard to understand the game from the south. But to the men of the west, it might as well have come from Mars.
You see it wasn’t the game’s fault.
It was The Indigenous Game, wasn’t it? The pair felt inadequate because they could not embrace The Australian Game, as they were told they should.
But battle cries learned in backyards and in playgrounds were absent. Loyalties driven home at the dinner table were banished. Old enmities that were never forgotten, let alone forgiven, fell on barren ground.
The thin threads that bridge generation gaps fluttered in the breeze. Sights, sounds and smells that are forever bound up in that mysterious process of memory had no place. Irrational, blind passions handed down through the generations like a valuable heirloom counted for nought.
Above all, the blood and thunder were missing.
What is the indigenous game?
It certainly should not be a label to be bandied about thoughtlessly in a propaganda war.
Indigenous is where the heart is. And as a father and son headed home that day, they came to realise what belonged and what did not. What was native and what was not.
A lesson they would not forget again.
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October 16th 2009 @ 7:30pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:30pm | Report comment
Indigenous – no but it’s not exclusively Victorian and to say so shows a lack of understanding of how sport is seen in Aus. In WA the WAFL was huge until the Eagles entered the AFL and Aussie Rules is a long way ahead of football which comes in second. In SA its the same, the SANFL always was of a really high quality and was followed religiously by South Australian’s, this was transferred into the Crows when they entered the AFL with football coming in second.
Tasmania is exclusively Aussie rules and they are nuts about it in the NT too. QLD/NSW are mainly divided up by the two rugby codes but football is big, particularly in Sydney and both Brisbane and Sydney have AFL teams while the rugby codes have a very minimal presence, both at a professional and amateur level in the other states.
NSW/QLD residents need to stop thinking they are what makes up Aus and also that AFL fans have some grudge against League and Union. I personally don’t care for either version but hold no ill-will towards them, I think the off-field scandals around the NRL are ridiculous but in general, AFL fans don’t care about the NRL for example but NRL fans seem to love having a whinge about anything to do with the AFL, any chance they get and now that it’s being said here that AFL is Australia’s game the Blues and the Maroons come out saying “what about us, there are lot’s of us, why aren’t we Australia’s game”?
October 16th 2009 @ 7:34pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:34pm | Report comment
And your thoughts on the legion AFL scandals this year?
October 16th 2009 @ 7:45pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:45pm | Report comment
How about you compile a list of those revolving around the NRL and once you’ve resupplied your paper stocks, then start on the AFL.
The AFL has hundreds of professionals but there aren’t weekly news stories about getting blind drunk and punching out teammates, sponsors etc etc and the group sex stories don’t seem to involve the AFL with the regularity seen in the NRL. Fevola’s indiscrestion was probably the most high-profile of the season and he embarassed himself, he didn’t cause any distress to others.
Neither sport is entirely clean and that can’t be expected, these are still “young” men who are rich and famous, they are bound to act up a bit occasionally but there’s a difference between pissing outside a nightclub and gang raping a woman and can’t be spoken of in the same breath as scandals.
But thanks for backing up my “what about us, there are lot’s of us, why aren’t we Australia’s game” theory, as soon as anything goes pear-shaped around the rugby world in Aus, they turn their vision to the AFL and say “yeah but look over there, they do stuff too”: Clean up your own backyard.
October 16th 2009 @ 7:51pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:51pm | Report comment
I’m afraid there are regular stories of AFL misbehaviour but because a compliant southern media is quick to act as apoligists for the sport, it is hard to criticise you for being so out of the loop.
October 16th 2009 @ 7:57pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:57pm | Report comment
This is another thing you are going to have to get past as well.
The southern/western media are not as compliant as you are led to believe or think.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:25pm
John Ryan said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:25pm | Report comment
Don’t you believe it son the cover up is alive and well in the AFL,also what State got all other codes bar Aussie rules banned for 10 years in the schools,quite simply you could play aussie rules at school and that was it.
So dont come the sanctimonious crap
October 16th 2009 @ 8:00pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:00pm | Report comment
Mick, stop telling us that there is this and that and just back it up. I know there are scandals in the AFL and I know there are scandals in the NRL. What I said was compile a list and compare the two. Don’t just write throwaway comments and expect to base your argument on crap like this:
“southern media is quick to act as apoligists for the sport”. That is such rubbish and if anything its the reverse, those writing about the NRL haven’t done enough to condemn the actions of their players whereas Fevola’s relativey minor in comparison, drinking incident was a huge deal.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:17pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:17pm | Report comment
You condone the alleged sexual harrasment of women?
October 16th 2009 @ 8:23pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:23pm | Report comment
Here you go Freud….
http://www.footyfiles.com.au/
October 16th 2009 @ 8:31pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:31pm | Report comment
Damn that’s a long list of AFL incidents — even surprised me.
October 17th 2009 @ 4:55am
Redb said | October 17th 2009 @ 4:55am | Report comment
It is the NRL who are bringing an NFL expert to deal with its off field player problems with raft of very serious matters.
It is the NRL itself that admits it has a sponsor image problem.
Why is Greg Inglis allowed to play for Australia in RL – this alleged criminal representing this country whilst police charges are still pending.
October 17th 2009 @ 6:02am
Elbusto said | October 17th 2009 @ 6:02am | Report comment
The Fevola incident is a classic example of the different way the media cover AFL and NRL incidents. Willy Mason has a pee against a wall and its a national incident. Fevola is alleged to have sexually harassed a JOURNALIST and she is not pressing charges or formally complaining.
Albert Proud’s conviction was hidden away on middle pages in small paragraphs – a classic AFL cover up.
Anybody who seriously believes that ‘better people’ play one code of football than another needs their head read.
Fact is the behaviour of Football players is often over reported in Australia as there is, as a visiting journo once said’ too many journalists here in Australia and not enough news’!
October 21st 2009 @ 4:26pm
oikee said | October 21st 2009 @ 4:26pm | Report comment
Mate, AFL has been hidden behind closed doors for decades, Fervola was just busting loose of a closed door cellar. You really think we are stupid, i have seen the antics of AFL, most people have, we know the arrogance because we see it on a weekly basis at top level. (sam newman and Demitiou). Snide remarks.
Once you learn to except the AFL has a problem, then,,, and only then, you have a voice.
October 16th 2009 @ 7:47pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 7:47pm | Report comment
Scandals are good for sport usually.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:08pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:08pm | Report comment
What does off field incidents have to do with this? You contradict yourself by saying that you think off field incidents are ridiculous but don’t care.
AFL aren’t much better. Don’t throw stones in glass houses buddy.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:00pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:00pm | Report comment
Who cares where the game was made. All I know is that those born and bred in NSW and QLD have grown up with Rugby League as their main football code. Its what we look forward to on those cold winter weekends. Its in our blood, its what is passed down thru generations. No marketing spin can take us away from it.
In Rugby League, no one is excluded. You can play if you are big, small, tall or short. You can play if you are Anglo, Indigenous, Pacific Islander, Middle Eastern, Asian or European. The talent is spread amongst those who are fast, strong, fit, flamboyant or just plain smart. Anyone and everyone is accepted.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:03pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:03pm | Report comment
Michael B said
Its what we look forward to on those cold winter weekends.
Should get a heater near your tele then.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:15pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:15pm | Report comment
Thanks for the tip, I keep my place pretty warm when watching League on TV…. unfortunately, they don’t have portable heaters to take to the games!
If only we had a stadium which can have the roof closed… now that would make things easier…
October 21st 2009 @ 4:28pm
oikee said | October 21st 2009 @ 4:28pm | Report comment
Nice thought, but to be honest , i think its because we know all 4 codes and have concluded, rugby league is the greatest game on earth, fullstop,
October 16th 2009 @ 8:23pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:23pm | Report comment
I dont think many people condone bad behaviour, but unless its a real serious incident scandals are good for sportsmen/rock bands/ high flyers etc but bad for politicians and the like.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:26pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:26pm | Report comment
“You condone the alleged sexual harrasment of women?” – If a woman was given the choice between being sexually assaulted and sexually harassed we all know which one she would take but we all know the NRL players haven’t been big on giving women choices.
I condone neither action but for you to try and make Fevola’s drunken Brownlow evening – which might I add almost cost him his career and instead has seen him be traded meaning he has to uproot his young family – out to be something akin to the scandals seen in the NRL, to the group sex or the threesomes in the toilets or getting blind and punching a teammate in the face. Fevola may have a history of doing stupid things but his was an isolated incident, the NRL’s problems are related to the surrounding culture.
Oh and btw, we’re still awaiting some facts for your arguments.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:32pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:32pm | Report comment
See above
October 16th 2009 @ 8:40pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:40pm | Report comment
Yes the above from Michael B is what? The most recent events including Sam Newman who hasn’t played for decades and two from the Brownlow’s, both from known idiots and neither of which were the cause of distress to toher people.
I said, provide us a list with all of the incidents on there, go back 2 years and gives us some categories. See how many alcohol related incidents there are between the codes and also how many that ended up being violent or sexual misdemanours.
Until I see that I won’t accept your “oh but look at the AFL rubbish”. Mick you haven’t provided us with any genuine facts at all. We’re still waiting for the breakdown of the fans too.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:46pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:46pm | Report comment
Yes unfortunately the list is incomplete…there are several recent AFL incidents that are not on there.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:23pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:23pm | Report comment
I mentioned the last 2 years. If only I could be bothered and had endless amounts of time your argument would be quashed, that’s obviously the reason you don’t give as any facts as you know they are contrary to what you’re trying to say.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:32pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:32pm | Report comment
I think you shot yourself in the foot there…
October 16th 2009 @ 8:32pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:32pm | Report comment
Should NRL follow the AFL’s lead a pay hush money to the females to keep them quiet instead ? What type of culture is this – “Sweep it under the carpet culture” ?
This came directly from the mouth of a former club president.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:33pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:33pm | Report comment
What’s the latest on the police investigation into the Carlton rape allegations?
October 21st 2009 @ 4:32pm
oikee said | October 21st 2009 @ 4:32pm | Report comment
Calm down, we all know about the draft system, being uprooted. ??? Yeah right, their was a story not long ago about that silly draft system. Look, just say to yourself, he is a goose, now he has been rooted in Brisbane, its their problem now. If he was a league player he would have be exciled to england
October 16th 2009 @ 8:43pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:43pm | Report comment
This is denigating south quickly.
What i will say is that the AFL have the media in their pocket, they have committed more serious acts of misbehaviour than the NRL but the southern media have not let the northern media know about it and only reported NRL indiscretions.
Having said all that, aussie rules is still our national game.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:48pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:48pm | Report comment
“This is denigating south quickly.”
You are quite right. But who brought up the issue of bad behaviour?
October 16th 2009 @ 8:52pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:52pm | Report comment
I dunno who did.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:54pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:54pm | Report comment
You did Mick; “And your thoughts on the legion AFL scandals this year?”
October 16th 2009 @ 8:57pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:57pm | Report comment
I would agree with you there FOF,
October 16th 2009 @ 9:05pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:05pm | Report comment
Excuse me. Mick was responding to this comment by Freud.
“I personally don’t care for either version but hold no ill-will towards them, I think the off-field scandals around the NRL are ridiculous but in general”
Now please stop the BS
October 16th 2009 @ 9:08pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:08pm | Report comment
Yeah Mick B, i did read that but in no way was that any sort of statement to attempt to start a tit for tat war, really you would have to be pretty thin skinned to take ofence at that statement.
October 16th 2009 @ 8:49pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 8:49pm | Report comment
I dont think Mick is still searching for the indigenous game any more.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:00pm
Pippinu said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:00pm | Report comment
Desperately seeking Susan?
October 16th 2009 @ 9:02pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:02pm | Report comment
He’s looking for something to grab onto.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:17pm
Mick from Giralang said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:17pm | Report comment
I found the indigenous game a long time ago…
October 16th 2009 @ 9:03pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:03pm | Report comment
Speaking of Indigenous – The inaugural Indigenous All Stars vs the NRL All Stars match next year is going to be a beauty. Good initiative and smart thinking to put it on the anniversary of the apology to the Stolen Generation – 13th February. Well done to whoever came up with that idea.
I daresay that the skill level is this game will probably rival State of Origin.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:05pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:05pm | Report comment
Where will it be played ?.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:07pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:07pm | Report comment
Skilled Park GC
October 16th 2009 @ 9:09pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:09pm | Report comment
OK …. where do you reckon the centre for koori league is in Australia.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:15pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:15pm | Report comment
TBH : Probably somewhere in North Queensland.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:21pm
bever fever said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:21pm | Report comment
Why not play it there, Townsville, probably get a better crowd.
October 16th 2009 @ 9:36pm
Michael B said | October 16th 2009 @ 9:36pm | Report comment
I would be very surprised if this game is not sold out.
I think there was a deal done with the Queensland Govt to play the game at Skilled Park.
Apparently the Victorian Govt made a play for game to be played in Melb.
October 16th 2009 @ 10:39pm
katzilla said | October 16th 2009 @ 10:39pm | Report comment
There are more people in this country who couldn’t give a toss about any football code, then those that do.
Being an outsider looking in Ive always found it strange that AFL gets bandied about as the national game when the capital city doesnt have a team and the largest city shows complete indifference to it.
RL definately isn’t it. With only 2 states involved that makes it tough.
Having lived here a few years in Sydney and Melbourne there is only one sport that you can travel anywhere and enjoy with anyone. Only one sport where you can walk into almost any pub and have a conversation about and ensure the guy your speaking with knows what your talking about.
The footbal codes dont even come close.
October 16th 2009 @ 10:49pm
Freud of Football said | October 16th 2009 @ 10:49pm | Report comment
What a rubbish argument, yes Canberra doesn’t have a team and so what? Canberra is smaller than every other city that does have a team and Sydney is and always will be a rugby city, that is a given but for you the fact that it is the dominant sport across the country isn’t convincing enough?
You’ve failed to mention which sport it is that you “can walk into almost any pub and have a conversation about”. I hope you’re not talking about football because that really would be a joke.
October 17th 2009 @ 2:25am
BN said | October 17th 2009 @ 2:25am | Report comment
Going by your Avatar and the reference to football in your last comment (FOF), I agree, you can’t go into most Australian Pubs and talk about AFL. To be serious though, are you really saying that the sport that has the highest participation rate in Australia (not fans), and is the WORLD game wouldn’t be discussed in most Pubs?
October 17th 2009 @ 4:53am
Freud of Football said | October 17th 2009 @ 4:53am | Report comment
BN, I’m not sure which pubs you frequent but obviously none further than 25km away from the center of a liberal capital city. People in the country would either laugh you out or abuse you, depending on their blood alcohol level if you mention the wrong code in the wrong pub.
October 17th 2009 @ 12:20pm
katzilla said | October 17th 2009 @ 12:20pm | Report comment
So what? Umm the heart beat of the country, where all the biggest decisions are made doesn’t have a team in the National game?
‘but for you the fact that it is the dominant sport across the country isn’t convincing enough?’
Your smoking crack, Cricket is the most dominant sport across the country.
How can you say Across the country when the largest state couldn’t give two tosses about it. Thats 7 Million people in NSW. Almost a third of the countries population couldn’t give a rats a**.
Be as delusional as you like, that doesn’t make it the truth.
October 16th 2009 @ 10:48pm
westy said | October 16th 2009 @ 10:48pm | Report comment
Bever fever have been trying to catch you to apologise for a previous irrational rant. Bad day at the juniors . sorry.
One thing that Aussie rules or rugby league can be proud of without any rancour is the participation of indigenous players in both games.
The NRL game to kick of next season is between the NRL ALL Stars v Indigenous All Stars . Some of the indigenous NRL players for the indigenous team include Matt Bowen/ Jharad Yow yeh/ Nathan merrit/ Yileen Gordon/greg Inglis/ Justin Hodges/Jamal Idris/Rhys Wesser/Jamie Soward/ Scott prince/ Preston Campbell/ Chris Sandow/George Rose/Tom Learoyd Larsons/Sam Thaiday/Willie Tonga/Cory paterson/Daine laurie/Carl Webb.
It is a team capable of winning NRL finals .
Preston campbell said it is an honour to play with my people. personally I look on it as a corroberee.
I know the AFL could do likewise. it is something to affirm not compete.
I think Michael b may be a little unkind to parts of Sydney. There would be many Souths supporters in Redfern who would argue Souths is the centre of Koori league.It is the NRL club that has had genuine long standing links to its aboriginal coomiunity long before it was the norm. Play their junior rep teams and their aboriginal community is always well represented and celebrated.
I think you would also do NSW country a grave disservice . Rugby league is not good at publicising what it does well. it does not have the marketing finesse of the AFL. A crowd of over 10000 watched the final of the NSW aboriginal rugby league Knockout Country knockout at Armidale Rugby league park between Walgett BAC and Mindaribba Warriors . Other participants included Nulla sunrise / Narwan / Moree Boomerangs/Toomelah/ North casino/Waterloo Storm /Taree/with another six country teams.
October 17th 2009 @ 8:44am
bever fever said | October 17th 2009 @ 8:44am | Report comment
No probs Westy, i was thinking that perhaps north coast of NSW and then heading west from there would be the center of koori league in this country but thats just a guess.
IMO this game needs to be played in a major country location.
October 17th 2009 @ 4:56pm
ren said | October 17th 2009 @ 4:56pm | Report comment
there has been an aboriginal all-stars vs. various AFL clubs game for a few years now, always played in darwin before pre-season. last yr was against essendon i think