Stop tarring all league players with the same brush
As a youngster growing up in Dapto, I vividly remember my first moment being star struck. It was in a low-key hot chook shop in the Dapto CBD.
As my Mum was queuing for a takeaway meal, I noticed a large frame seated in the corner devouring a hot spud. It was a daunting occasion for a five-year-old watching this ominous giant unleash upon a meal.
My Mum tried to usher me away, preventing me from awkwardly staring at this goliath, perhaps even fearful that I would be his next bite, before realising it was none other than the late, great Artie Beetson.
Artie had noticed me and had stopped eating.
He was quick to shake my hand, rustle my hair and give me an autograph. At that time, Artie Beetson was better and a whole lot bigger than Santa Claus to me. Meeting him was an experience I will never forget. He showed me in a snapshot what a great man he was, and why he enjoyed such enormous respect.
It is encouraging that a group of modern players carries on big Artie’s legacy. Most rugby league players are able to hold their heads high.
Scribes who are quick to write sensationalised columns about off-field late-night shenanigans ought to focus more on positive player behaviour, which makes up the overwhelming majority. Some journalists are more responsible for this than others. Rugby league fans will know who I am referring to.
Some newspapers have almost become NRL gossip columns, with more so called twists and turns than The Bold and the Restless or whatever that rubbish is.
Rugby league is played by young men, and while there may be the odd exception, their behaviour is no different, worse or worthy of condemnation than that of their peers on a Friday or Saturday night.
To the contrary, the current rugby league player is probably more committed and focused than most in the community.
To achieve a position within any NRL club’s ranks takes perseverance, desire, and dedication that most people are not prepared to commit. This equates to a great responsibility, arguably more than the everyday punter. The current player has a lot at stake after channelling all their energies into reaching their on-field potential.
That said, I realise there are academics who dedicate years to their craft who share a similar responsibility to their own personal behaviour. We don’t seek to crucify the budding academics or put them under scrutiny as we do footballers.
On the weekend I flicked the TV on and watched a humble man walk with his children in his arms around Suncorp Stadium, celebrating his 300th game. Petero Civoniceva plays as tough as anyone, but is revered off the field. He is an ornament to the game. Achieving this respect and standing couldn’t have come easy given the media circus that follows our NRL ‘stars’, sweating on a momentary indiscretion to boast about in their columns.
The modern players’ responsibilities include keeping their reputations intact or being shown the door. Petero is an example of the majority.
There are countless stories that hack journos could devote their energies to reporting. But NRL clubs have countless stories of how their players are involved in the community helping the disadvantaged, running clinics for kids, and generally doing good. There are significantly more players achieving great things in the community than the odd ones who tarnish the reputation for the rest.
More often than not, players commit an enormous amount of their time and energy for no reward or fanfare. They go out of their way visiting the underprivileged because they are passionate about being positive citizens and role models. They are unassuming about their achievements.
I think the respect Artie Beetson gave me as a youngster is reflective of the current player.
I am sure there are many kids today experiencing what I did all those years ago: a fleeting moment in the presence of a legend. Artie was one of the greatest ever to lace on a boot, but he went out of his way to make me feel at ease.
Players ought to enjoy fairness and accuracy in reporting. ‘Journos’ could do better for their own reputations by restricting their comments to the player’s footballing ability, or not writing at all. Let the salacious tastes of the minority be satisfied by the soap operas or The Jerry Springer Show.
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June 26th 2012 @ 6:53am
Rodney McDonell said | June 26th 2012 @ 6:53am | Report comment
Well written.
June 26th 2012 @ 7:04am
Crashy said | June 26th 2012 @ 7:04am | Report comment
Poor Nate miles. I mean what a better idea after 40 beers than to use a hotel as your dumping ground. Haha
Poor bloke will always be tarnished by that bloke, same as the chap with the dog thing.
June 26th 2012 @ 8:50am
EagleRock said | June 26th 2012 @ 8:50am | Report comment
Can’t agree more. Its been happening for so long now that it’s hard to determine what is speculation and what is fact.
June 26th 2012 @ 8:50am
jdubya said | June 26th 2012 @ 8:50am | Report comment
One of my most treasured childhood memories was Justin Hodges stopping everything to play a good half hour of footy with me and my mates at a park in Maroubra. His girlfriend (who was the real attraction) was left sitting bemused with the dog.. I remember him going up for bombs and stepping past everybody, was a great moment and explains why I am just about the only Sydneysider who has time for him.
June 26th 2012 @ 9:14am
JazzyJase said | June 26th 2012 @ 9:14am | Report comment
that’s an awesome story. it just goes to show how down to earth and away from the footy field ‘how ordinary’ most of these blokes are.
I still can’t stand the bloke but
June 26th 2012 @ 11:23am
damoinaus said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:23am | Report comment
Nice story…it sort of makes Hodgo sound like a reasonable dude – but sport is all about theatre and rivalry.
As much as we hate it, we’re all magnetically drawn to the salacious, controversial stories featuring players misbehaving, cheating and lying. It’s a vicious cycle – the media need sport and the sport need the media.
Wasn’t there a feelgood news network over in the US that only reported on positive stories? Yeah, they’re dead.
June 26th 2012 @ 8:53am
turbodewd said | June 26th 2012 @ 8:53am | Report comment
Jazzy,
over decades RL players have forged a reputation for dodgy behaviour. Invariably these incidents are newsworthy beyond belief! I mean Joel Monaghan with a dog; Todd Carney pissing on a patron and being a moron in Canberra/Goulburn; Julian O’Neill; Brad Fittler; Don McKinnon pissing on the field in 1988; gang bangs gone wrong (Bulldogs, Cronulla in NZ); Greg Bird bashing his gf; the list just never ever ends. Didnt the North Sydney Bears tear apart a hotel in Indonesia one time?
All of this behaviour made the bogus allegations against Brett Stewart seem totally believable.
Rugby league culture needs a tweak. Just ease off the grog and the gambling.
June 26th 2012 @ 12:15pm
The High Shot said | June 26th 2012 @ 12:15pm | Report comment
That’s all true and if players are going to go to these extremes then they should be publicly shamed and the NRL deserves to cop some negative PR. The issue here is that the NRL alone of all sporting codes in this country can never be allowed to ‘move on’ from such incidents. If an NRL player misbehaves, the issue is almost always reported in a tone that suggests the code itself is about to implode. Almost without exception these articles rake over the ashes of long past indiscretions. For example if a player is accused of punching his girlfriend or a woman makes a sexual assault complaint, the article that gleefully shouts this news to the world will make sure to list every other time this has happened in the NRL sphere.
Compare that to the soft treatment some other codes enjoy. This week there’s been a couple of articles about young AFL players who’ve transgressed with assaults but the articles spend at least a third of their words on describing the players’ rise to AFL prominence, their on-field stats for the season and how very exciting they are to watch. I am not exaggerating.
NRL has earned itself a bad reputation in the media but has usually met its problems head-on. Over the last couple of years there has been a happy dearth of major bad news (I exempt Monaghan – I thought it was funny!) from the NRL while in Melbourne, starting with St Kilda’s fun times with that young woman and the old player manager… the point is the codes are as bad – and good – as each other but only the NRL as a whole gets excoriated at every available opportunity.
Southerners seem to think that the NRL gets an easy ride in the News Limited press because News has an interest in the game. They don’t understand that News does very well out of beating its ‘own’ code up to sell papers. By contrast, AFL had (maybe still has?) some sort of deal in place whereby they get favourable coverage in the sports pages all around the country.
June 26th 2012 @ 12:28pm
micka said | June 26th 2012 @ 12:28pm | Report comment
You’re not reading the right papers High Shot.
Here are some names Victorians will never forget, Kim Duthie, Ricky Nixon, Sam Gilbert, Stephen Milne, Leigh Montagna, Ben Cousins, Wayne Carey etc etc.
In comparison, I think the media have been very quiet over Joel Monaghan, Nate Myles etc.
The lack of awareness of media coverage is purely a product of the media you take in. Controversies sell papers no matter whats in it for the owners.
June 26th 2012 @ 1:49pm
jdubya said | June 26th 2012 @ 1:49pm | Report comment
The “rape” (whatever you want to call it) of underage girls and hard drug use is a lot more serious than anything done by Monaghan and Myles don’t ya think
June 27th 2012 @ 5:34am
peeeko said | June 27th 2012 @ 5:34am | Report comment
greg bird was found innocent?
June 26th 2012 @ 9:09am
JazzyJase said | June 26th 2012 @ 9:09am | Report comment
Hi Turbodewd,
The incidents you have listed are fairly ordinary to say the least and not accepted within anyone’s language. You have scratched the surface with what you have quoted. I think people who engage in these type of activities will do so regardless of whether they are footballers or not….and yes, they are probably ‘newsworthy’.
However, my article was to put the spotlight on the way the media enlists so called journalists to purely focus on off field incidents of much less signifigance. The purpose of these hacks seems to be anything to do with the actual football and based on rumour mongering ans gossip. Often their stories / gossip columns open with “my sources suggest” and finish with which footballer may be dating such and such, spending too much time at the TAB, seen lunching with a C grade celebrity. In my mind it is total rubbish
Of all the examples of dodgy behaviour you have listed, i am sure there are endless list players who actually do great work that is never mentioned. IShould this not also be considered newsworthy ?
June 26th 2012 @ 9:10am
eagleJack said | June 26th 2012 @ 9:10am | Report comment
Said journalist has now focussed his attention on Phil Gould and his management style at the Panthers. Although this is just another chapter in a long and personal battle. Would his tune change if Gould was to move to Cronulla ala Todd Carney?
June 26th 2012 @ 9:17am
JazzyJase said | June 26th 2012 @ 9:17am | Report comment
exactly Eagle Jack….i really couldn’t care less about that blokes personal agenda with Phillip Ronald Gould. It is grubby and not worth the paper it is printed on
June 26th 2012 @ 9:48am
turbodewd said | June 26th 2012 @ 9:48am | Report comment
What we need is more league players like Paul Harragon. He seems to have a good image to me. He features in those NIB ads and is well spoken.
Nathan Hindmarsh also seems like a good role model who deserves more airtime…but his career ends this year.
June 26th 2012 @ 10:07am
steve b said | June 26th 2012 @ 10:07am | Report comment
Yes and the grubby stories will keep getting written and read, unfortunatly its just the way is , some journos seem to only have this in mind when reporting on anything slightly of the mark ,,they try and add the sensational curve ball so as to make it seem maybe believable ,,and i dont think its ever going to change,smut sells better…
June 26th 2012 @ 10:32am
turbodewd said | June 26th 2012 @ 10:32am | Report comment
Crikey steve b,
do you know what Todd Carney did in Canberra and Goulburn? The bloke was a tornado of grog and idiocy, the Raiders gave him plenty of chances and he thumbed his nose at them. You cant blame the journos for doing their job.
Don’t blame the journos for what a small minority of the players do.
June 26th 2012 @ 11:16am
steve b said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:16am | Report comment
G,day turbo na mate that was bad,, ,im talking about the ones where there is no clear evidence and the journos lead you up the garden path ,,
June 26th 2012 @ 11:39am
eagleJack said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:39am | Report comment
turbo what Todd Carney got up to in Canberra/Goulburn was disgraceful. And rightfully was reported in detail.
My issue is with a certain “Sports-editor-at-large” who then went on an 18mth crusade against Carney whilst he was at the Roosters. He clearly had ulterior motives to de-stabilise the Roosters as it is no secret that he doesn’t like the Club. Carney was seen as his way to do this and he made his life hell. Can you honestly say that what Todd got up to at the Roosters was even newsworthy? Yet this journo wanted Carney sent to jail!
Sure enough, the Roosters on the back of intense public and media scrutiny had to let him go. Most of these matters would have been dealt with in-house if this journo had not been first on the scene to report every single episode. None of them were serious matters.
Now Todd plays for this journo’s beloved Sharks and not a peep. And from many sources he is more out of control in the Shire than ever. But the stories aren’t being run. Which I agree with. He isn’t causing any problems just drinking up a storm. But you have to question a journo’s integrity when only a year ago he felt that Carney should be in jail for doing exactly what he is doing now in the Shire.
I never realised that potentially ruining a players career to appease a personal vendetta was part of a journalists job.
June 26th 2012 @ 11:47am
turbodewd said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:47am | Report comment
Well I dont really rate anything Phil Rothfield says. Im not a fan of Murdoch media either.
As far as I know Todd Carney hasnt done anything dodgy since the Raiders kicked him out.
June 26th 2012 @ 11:56am
Mac said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:56am | Report comment
Well said Eagle Jack..
June 26th 2012 @ 1:33pm
oikee said | June 26th 2012 @ 1:33pm | Report comment
Not a peep from our favorite reporter.
I wonder how you get rid of these reporters you dont want, maybe not offer them any free beer at the functions.
He is like a old cushion that one.
June 26th 2012 @ 11:11am
Widget said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:11am | Report comment
Excellently written article, the bad always seems to outweigh the good when it comes to nrl players.
June 26th 2012 @ 11:22am
JazzyJase said | June 26th 2012 @ 11:22am | Report comment
Thanks Widget, there is a lack of balance. Like Turbo and a few others have highlighted, some of the late night antics are appaulling. Not all players / people in general are like this. Would be good to see some of the tireless good work get some press.
The gossip columns do not interest me at all. i could care less that Noddy Kimmorley bought his groceries at Franklins