Why I’m sick of Australian swimmers and their tears
By dan-talintyre, 2 Aug 2012 dan-talintyre is a Roar Pro
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The girls were beaming, the flag was hoisted, and Advance Australia Fair was being blasted on television screens right across the world.
It was a proud night to be an Australian, as the women’s 4x100m freestyle relay team picked up our first gold medal of the 2012 London Olympics.
You felt proud to call yourself an Australian.
Fast-forward then to the men’s 4x100m freestyle relay, where we were once again expected to compete for the gold medal, and the same pride was evident once more.
The likes of James Magnussen and James Roberts were bound to bring home a medal for the Aussies, and we could finally claim bragging rights over the United States and Michael Phelps.
But after a slugging swim from Magnussen, a strong swim from Phelps and an incredible finish from the French, Australia found themselves out the medals and clueless as to what had gone wrong.
They had been blown away. They were simply not good enough.
Which, in itself, is absolutely no problem whatsoever. The four men in the pool had tried their hardest to do their nation proud and satisfy the desires of the millions watching them, and they had failed.
We would be proud, no matter what.
Well, that was until the tears.
The tears, the hands on hips, the pouting look away from the camera but still clearly in sight of the camera, was nothing to be proud of. James Magnussen’s comments about “I have nothing to say” are nothing we should be proud of.
These are professional athletes representing their country. They are to be professional and know that whatever the outcome is, they are to conduct themselves in a manner worthy of the nation they are representing. They are to be gracious winners or gracious losers – whatever the outcome may be.
Yet what Magnussen did had nothing to the appalling performance by Australian backstroke sensation Emily Seebohm, who burst into tears following her silver medal in the women’s 100m backstroke final.
And no, not the good kind of tears.
Seebohm was clearly distraught with her second place to American swimmer Missy Franklin that she was overcome with emotion – unable to hold back the tears of disappointment and regret.
I completely understand this; well, as best I can seeing I have never competed at an Olympic event. I understand the pain of losing a grand final, or narrowly missing out on something.
What I do not understand is crying at a silver medal.
You won a silver medal for your country. You are the second best swimmer in the world for that event. You have done your country proud, you have done your family proud – you have done yourself proud.
And then you cry because it wasn’t good enough and suddenly all that pride everyone was feeling suddenly drops away.
There is nothing proud about watching a swimmer who finished second and will walk away with a medal from the Olympic Games cry because it wasn’t good enough – nothing proud about it at all.
We won’t even begin to comment on her blame-shifting onto social media for her poor performance. Nobody made you check Facebook and unless you stopped to use Twitter halfway through the race, only your swimming can be held accountable for the result.
Accept you weren’t good enough to win, accept you wanted the gold medal and then hold your head high for winning a silver medal at the Olympic Games.
Don’t shift the blame and definitely don’t cry.
If you don’t want your silver medal, give it to the girl that finished third or give it to the girl that missed the final by a fraction of a second – unable to state her claim for an Olympic medal.
Emily Seebohm has made us proud for the six years she’s been in the Australian Swimming Team and she will continue to make us proud for as long as she represents the greatest country in the world on the international stage.
Just don’t give us the tears. We’re not proud of the tears. You just look like a spoilt little kid who didn’t get her way so she chucked a tantrum.
I’m proud to be Australian and I proudly cheer on every single athlete that represents our great nation on whatever level in whatever sport.
I’m proud of Emily Seebohm and James Magnussen.
So take your medal and hold your head high. Let all of Australia heap as much praise possible on your incredible efforts at the Olympic Games. You gave your everything, and that’s all anyone can ask.
That’s what makes us smile; that’s what makes us stand an applaud. That’s what makes us cheer on Australia at the London Olympics and that what’s makes us proud.
Just leave the tears in the water, where they belong.
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August 2nd 2012 @ 3:26am
Seriously, Who says Oi? said | August 2nd 2012 @ 3:26am | Report comment
It makes me sick to see a grown competitor crying after not winning.
Frankly, it’s weak and annoying. Crying after losses is what some little children do.
If you’re that mentally weak, go and cry in private. There’s no need to command attention that should only go to the actual winner.
August 2nd 2012 @ 5:26pm
Jono said | August 2nd 2012 @ 5:26pm | Report comment
I commented on Steph Rice crying in an article earlier this week. Suffice to say, I was said to have been incredibly cruel. I think it’s very immature.
August 3rd 2012 @ 1:32am
Neil.L said | August 3rd 2012 @ 1:32am | Report comment
I think they can cry because they spent too much time training and not enough time writing their thoughts.
Maybe writing thoughts is faster to do than memorising thoughts, plus reviewing the writing is quicker than remembering the thoughts.
June 5th 2013 @ 11:17am
Rain said | June 5th 2013 @ 11:17am | Report comment
Are you kidding me. Oh my gosh you have no idea what its like to be a swimmer.
August 2nd 2012 @ 6:39am
Robert said | August 2nd 2012 @ 6:39am | Report comment
One of the highest paid sportsman in this country had a great 4 years ago.Israel Folau cried his heart out after the Storm were smashed by Manly in the ’08 Grand Final.Apart from being a sook,nobody was showing him any sympathy because of the cash he took to go to the Broncos the following year.And seens as though the score was 40-0 in that match you’d think he’d would of had time to absorb the reality of losing
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August 2nd 2012 @ 6:45am
The Grafter said | August 2nd 2012 @ 6:45am | Report comment
I always remember Jeff Fenech crying when he announced his retirement (the first time) in the early 90′s.
He lost me that day……..
August 2nd 2012 @ 7:10am
Mushi said | August 2nd 2012 @ 7:10am | Report comment
Yep I hate it when people get emotional over a life long dream!
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:11am
Punter said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:11am | Report comment
Yes, I agree, how dare these people show any emotion after putting everything they have, in this ‘God given gift’ they have & to come up short, how dare they show any emotion. They should be trained to keep their emotions to themselves & front up to the camera & say, I gave it best & the other guy was just better & of course smile.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:47am
josh said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:47am | Report comment
I doubt this author has ever done anything as challenging as trying to the best in the world at something.
Crying is ok, if you lose if you have tried your heart out. It can be from exhaustion or bewilderment (i.e. I’be have put everything in to this and I still didn’t win what do i have to do?). Seebohm tears were from disappointment so was Magnussen’s attitude after the 4x100m.
What I am annoyed at is that after each race most swimmers are upset cause went fast in the semi’s/heats. WTF are coaches telling them? There is a concept known as pacing. Don’t exhaust yourself in the heats, there is no use setting a WR or OR in the heats then coming 5th in the final. this meet has really shown up your swimmers poor preparation and the ability of the coaches to coach.
August 2nd 2012 @ 11:25am
Punter said | August 2nd 2012 @ 11:25am | Report comment
Pacing is a very tricky business, in both Athens & Beijing, Trickett or (was she Lenton then) came into the Olympics as world record holder & both times missed qualifying for finals, fortunately in Beijing, another swimmer was disqualified & Trickett got into final & won Silver.
Seebhom, in Beijing was amongst the favourites, missed final (9th), swan in the medley relay in a time that would’ve won Bronze. This year she had 1 event apart from relays, so she could go out hard, whereas Franklin, has 4 individual plus 3 relays so had to pace & she nearly missed 200 free final.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:02am
Roger the Alien said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:02am | Report comment
Give me tears by Aussie athletes or anyone else over American robots holding their hands over their hearts while their stupid anthem is played ad nauseam.
August 2nd 2012 @ 10:01am
Bazza said | August 2nd 2012 @ 10:01am | Report comment
Their anthem wouldn’t be played “ad nauseam” if they weren’t the best and winning.
August 2nd 2012 @ 10:56am
Roger the Alien said | August 2nd 2012 @ 10:56am | Report comment
It’s not so much their anthem but their nauseating homage to it- not all of them, by the way. Maybe they could vary it with “The A Train to Harlem” or “in the Mood”, instead of “my eyes are dim I cannot see” every time.
August 2nd 2012 @ 9:08pm
Gleeso said | August 2nd 2012 @ 9:08pm | Report comment
Star Spangled Banner makes me wish I was American. We desperately need a moving anthem. Even NZ’s is better.
August 3rd 2012 @ 1:28am
LeagueLunatic said | August 3rd 2012 @ 1:28am | Report comment
Star Spangled Banner is a moving anthem? It’s one of the worst anthems I can think of. You make it sound like it’s the French anthem or something.
I would rank the American anthem with the Australian anthem. Both are modern and rubbish.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:06am
DJW said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:06am | Report comment
To me it just shows there human. Don’t forget they have trained years and years for this. Surely its ok to be bitterly disapointed and let your emotions get the better of you. To be so close to a life long dream but just miss out. Of course there proud of silver or bronze or whatever postion but there allowed to be disappointed.
I am so sick of armchair critics who have never even been to an olympics having a go at our athletes. First its not winning golds, then its for showing a bit of emotion. Shows no understanding of sport.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:12am
Fussballs AFL tracking spreadsheet said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:12am | Report comment
The author complains about athletes crying yet this entire article reads as a giant sook about people not showing precisely the ‘correct’ emotions at a given moment. Guess what? We’re humans, not robots. Sometimes people react to stress & disappointment gracefully, sometimes they get angry and sometimes they’re speechless. For all the criticism Magnussen has copped for his reaction post the 4×100 relay, what did he really do that was so objectionable – did he rant and rave, blame his team mates, accuse the opposition of cheating, blame the time keeping system? No, he was simply shocked and lost for words. Oh, and apparently he didn’t stand in the correct fashion either. Seriously, get a grip and find something worthwhile to complain about.
August 2nd 2012 @ 2:32pm
jameswm said | August 2nd 2012 @ 2:32pm | Report comment
Agreed. He wasn’t rude or disrespectful. He was shocked and empty and lost. It happens. He’s a good guy and some need to build a bridge. I know Magnussen has.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:14am
sledgeross said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:14am | Report comment
I never saw Allan Border or Steve Waugh cry lol
Just sayin
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am
Harry said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am | Report comment
And completely understand what you are saying.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am
Harry said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am | Report comment
And completely understand/agree with what you are saying!
August 2nd 2012 @ 11:28am
Punter said | August 2nd 2012 @ 11:28am | Report comment
No, but I’ve seen them get grumpy & lose their rag.
August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am
MyLeftFoot said | August 2nd 2012 @ 8:41am | Report comment
You don’t lose Gold.
you WIN silver.
These kids must’ve been brainwashed along the way by coaches/media/parents/AIS or somebody.
There’s enough water in the pool without adding copious tears to it.
August 26th 2012 @ 5:20pm
Pippa said | August 26th 2012 @ 5:20pm | Report comment
These athletes have not been brainwashed they choose to eat, sleep and breath the dream of GOLD! It is very easy to say what you are saying looking from the outside in, but they are allowed to express disappointment in not achieving what they have dedicated their life to achieving. Elite sport is extremely emotional, that’s what makes it entertaining to watch, but the emotions can’t always be positive!
August 2nd 2012 @ 9:02am
Sailosi said | August 2nd 2012 @ 9:02am | Report comment
I’m just sick of Australian swimmers full stop.