Beale needs a change of scenery

By Brent Ford / Roar Guru

Another morning and another headline story about Kurtley Beale, and once again it’s for all the wrong reasons.

Beale was stood down by the Melbourne Rebels for the second time in a month for breaching the conditions of his return to the team.

It is believed that after last week’s loss to the Chiefs, Beale went out with a couple of team mates and drank alcohol at the Melbourne Storm game on Saturday, breaking the conditions of his return from his prior suspension.

Then it is alleged that he missed a psychiatrist appointment.

While Beale had not misbehaved as was stressed by the Melbourne Rebels staff, he drank alcohol which he was not permitted to do.

What makes this situation most disappointing is that Kurtley Beale was very impressive off the bench last week, scoring a try and looking dangerous with every possession he had.

Even more disappointingly, it was against quality opposition.

He looked fitter then he had previously and it is likely he would have been selected for the Wallabies in their upcoming Test series against the Lions if he kept that sort of form up.

The easiest thing to say here is that the ARU needs to terminate his contract, and while in most cases that would be the right thing to do, it isn’t in this circumstance.

Beale needs help. It’s quite obvious that he has a problem and he needs to wake up to what he is doing before it is too late.

An appropriate option would be for Beale to relocate back to the Waratahs. Not only is this home for Kurtley, but there are strong leaders at the Waratahs that could help guide him.

The advantage of having his family close will help his situation too, as it is well known Beale has a close relationship with his family.

Last year Beale admitted to being homesick, and despite his best efforts he hasn’t been able to fully adjust to the lifestyle of Melbourne.

Damian Hill said it was disappointing for Beale.

“You can’t shy away from the fact that he is one of the best footballers in the country,” Hill said.

Hill also said that Beale had felt remorse for his actions and how they had affected the team.

“It’s just unfortunate that the behavioural side is interfering with that at the moment.”

Now with one of the country’s most talented player’s footballing career hanging in the balance, the ARU and the Melbourne Rebels both need to make the right decisions in dealing with this situation.

The Crowd Says:

2013-05-12T01:49:38+00:00

Justin2

Guest


He punched his current leader. He has scant respect and his behaviour was disgraceful.

2013-05-11T06:02:50+00:00

Mick Gold Coast QLD

Roar Guru


"you guys ... have forgotten the sort of stupid decisions you make as a young man, maybe it was too long ago, or you are just used to exemplary citizens surrounding you." Exceptional income as a public figure and the positive exposure it offers (advertising opportunities, product endorsements), together with agreeing to be used to promote the sport, brings with it a reasonable expectation of exemplary behaviour. Mediation is a modern alternative to appearing before the court. If it fails it's off to court you go. Mediation is not a signal that there is no case to answer.

2013-05-11T01:34:24+00:00

mattocks

Guest


I don't think the 'tahs would do any better than the rebels with Kurtley. There's plenty of good people at the rebels to help him out. The only benefit of being in nsw would be to be with his family if that's what he needs. As a fan of Aus rugby and a rebels supporter ultimately where he plays is up to him, I just hope he can settle down and make the full use of his talent. I just love watching him play. He's only 24 and how many of us did silly things at that age. True he gets a lot of opportunities being who he is but it also comes with way to much scrutiny. I wish him all the best

2013-05-11T00:12:07+00:00

cm

Guest


Assume KB has a "problem" with alcohol (euphemism for alcoholic, ie. he drinks compulsively). I know a bit about that, and it's about an inability to control the urge to drink and/or an inability to appropriately moderate behaviour when drinking. You don't have to be in the gutter to be alcoholic. Assume also that, as an aborigine, he has strong kinship and family relationships that I know nothing about as a whitey. Assume also that a recovering alcoholic benefits enormously from a non-judgemental, non-enabling, loving support network. I know a bit about that, too. If you assume all the above, given KB's family is in Sydney, then Sydney is the best place for him to get on top of his problem. Whether or not he plays footy is irrelevant, unless the tables are turned and footy's notorious drinking culture turns out to also be supportive and non-enabling. (I know a bit about that too - my 19yo son's Colts dinner is advertised to run from 3pm today, while watching the 1sts, until 2am tomorrow.) In short, if KB's employers think he has a drinking problem and it's risking his employment, then he has a problem. I just wish my employers had been so forthright years ago. I love KB as a footy player, and my greatest fear for him is that he will repeat Andrew Walker's miserable experiences.

2013-05-10T21:16:10+00:00

Charles Plowdog

Guest


if you're able to play AFL, union or league or indeed are a sportsperson of high calibre it seems that you get many opportunities to offend, and be forgiven because the God of football overcomes all. While this may be good for whatever sport the person comes from it is not good for the individual; being held to a different standard of responsibility just leads you to think you can do anything. You will note also that the NRL reckons Josh Dugan has demonstrated commitment to the programs they put in place so he is ready to return to league: all in a month or two. KB has too many convictions now and i think this commentary about him being better off in Sydney is rubbish; it is just another excuse for him. i agree with Red Kev and Brent i can never really understand the arguments of why leaders at a different club, or their culture, will be better. how often is that really demonstrated.

2013-05-10T21:08:22+00:00

Red Kev

Guest


Filed by bouncers who deal with that sort of thing on a daily basis? I don't think so.

2013-05-10T15:01:55+00:00

Bakkies

Guest


Worked for Craig Gower.

2013-05-10T08:07:34+00:00

silegusta

Roar Rookie


Well actually yes you can be charged with assault. "person who strikes, touches, or moves, or otherwise applies force of any kind to, the person of another, either directly or indirectly, without the other person's consent." 245 Cc In fact verbal intimidation coupled with agressive movement can be deemed assault. Intent is the essential element. So I have thought about it. It is the plaintiffs right to continue charges through and in this case it was not the public pressing charges but the individual. KB can well be forced into mediation in this regard. I also know of two cases that included shoving pushing and general rowdiness without punches that had been thrown that resulted in Assault and battery charges.

2013-05-10T07:24:33+00:00

Red Kev

Roar Guru


You don't get charged with assault and have to go to mediation for a bit of pushing...think before you post.

2013-05-10T05:53:45+00:00

Ted

Guest


I like KB but he is an adult....grow up or move on.....

2013-05-10T04:32:11+00:00

Vhavnal

Roar Rookie


Melbourne Storm could use him on the wing...Duffy is always injured...

2013-05-10T03:02:41+00:00

silegusta

Roar Rookie


Can we just break this down. He had some push and shove with a security guard - Most security guards I know are not the nicest of fellows and we do not know exactly what happened. Worst case scenario is two testosterone fuelled blokes one with a bit of booze in him the other with HGH, clenbuterol, trenbolone. They pushed each other, I guarantee the security guard is used to bullying little blokes like me and of course whined when he realised he could make some money. He punched a team mate while intoxicated - This is inexcusable. This is so bad. But the rest of his team mates forgave him, somehow the public can't I dont understand this, the guy who gets punched gets over it but the rest of the population cannot. Ridiculous. He goes to the Storm game and drinks a few warm light beers in plastic - he broke the rules; he probably thought no one would notice, he was stupid. this is not reflective of him being a drunk especially when there was no incident, he just broke a rule, so he has been stood down, fair enough If it wasn't for the media heat this could probably have continued to sort itself out. I feel like the majority of you guys who just continually talk about getting rid of him shipping him off, cutting him loose have forgotten the sort of stupid decisions you make as a young man, maybe it was too long ago, or you are just used to exemplary citizens surrounding you. Talk more objectively and less heatedly.

AUTHOR

2013-05-10T02:04:31+00:00

Brent Ford

Roar Guru


I still don't understand this concept of just shipping him to France or League. How is that going to help him at all?

2013-05-10T02:00:22+00:00

formeropenside

Guest


and I believe in little fairies at the bottom of the garden. Look, I'm sure the Tahs would love to have him back, at a bargain price for salary cap purposes (to the extent a salary cap is actually applied to NSW, which does not appear to be the case). But it will all probably end in tears, league, or France.

AUTHOR

2013-05-10T01:51:49+00:00

Brent Ford

Roar Guru


But I believe leaders at the Waratahs will pull him into line, he needs to accept he has a problem first. If he can accept that, then he could most likely be on the road to recovery.

2013-05-10T01:46:54+00:00

Gussy Boi

Roar Rookie


Why do people think going back to Sydney will change anything? He is far from a clean skin in Sydney as well, if people remember. Moving cities will only delay the inevitable and he will not solve any of his problems until he faces them head on. "Needs his support netowrk" is a weak excuse.

2013-05-10T01:43:44+00:00

gollygosh

Guest


Boy!!!! That would bring him down to earth.

AUTHOR

2013-05-10T00:41:34+00:00

Brent Ford

Roar Guru


Agreed, that's why I wrote he needs to wake up to himself before his talent is wasted.

2013-05-10T00:09:32+00:00

Red Kev

Guest


The issue is you can't help an addict of anything unless they admit they have a problem and want help. Beale may be making the right noises but he hasn't admitted he has a problem with alcohol. If you go back and look at his statements from the last time he was suspended after punching Delve he pointedly didn't say he had issues with alcohol: "I really don’t think I have an alcohol problem but sometimes alcohol doesn’t agree with me," Beale said in an exclusive statement to Rugby HQ. Until that mindset is changed within himself nothing anyone tries to do for Kurtley will work.

2013-05-10T00:04:52+00:00

Blinky Bill of Bellingen

Guest


Well said WB.

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