Bravo to Jonathan Trott for facing his demons

By Sporting Tragic / Roar Pro

In the last few days, I have found myself disgusted at the reaction, in some quarters, to Jonathan Trott’s decision to leave the Ashes tour and head home to England to deal with his “stress-related illness”.

I don’t use those inverted commas to make fun, merely as a way of identifying it as the media announcement did.

Surely, in a modern society, we have reached a time when mental illness is not ridiculed. How can we class ourselves as decent people when we take the proverbial mickey out of someone and label them as weak in the wake of such an event?

Furthermore, there is absolutely no justification for the argument that because Trott is a sportsman and earning more than a decent wage that that should somehow disqualify him from having a mental illness.

It is ludicrous to think that just because he plays a sport for a living and has things a little easier than the average Joe next door, who works two jobs and overtime to pay his mortgage, that he is less entitled or able to have a mental illness.

Any of the faceless people out there who are willing to sit behind a computer and type vitriol towards Trott should hang their heads in shame.

Would they be typing the same diatribe if the worst was to happen? Mental illness is not something to be laughed at.

The treatment of David Warner, Michael Clarke and the other Australians is just as ludicrous. I find it very hard to believe the Australian cricket team could have had any prior knowledge of the troubles that Trott was facing.

And if they did? It’s disgusting – I’ll accept that.

We live in a society in Australia (and the world for that matter) where mental illness among men is on the rise – and rapidly. Suicide and self-harm is not a domain for women and girls. Body image, stress and social media all play different roles in the health of people.

This is an issue that must be addressed in a holistic and societal fashion, not swept under the rug and laughed at or mocked. Having the courage to deal with it is surely a better option than the alternative.

Traditionally, men have not spoken of their struggles with mental illness, so I take my hat off to Trott for having the bravery to confront his issues head on.

May better health come his way.

Readers seeking support and information about suicide prevention can contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467.

The Crowd Says:

2014-03-17T14:51:01+00:00

Mike Caxton

Roar Rookie


Apology due?

2013-11-30T01:42:43+00:00

Bearfax

Guest


Well said B1. Pleased that someone who has been there is expressing an opinion here. I have never played sport at that level and can only image the hard work, sacrifice, disappointments, the struggle to get to the top. There must be a lot that you sacrifice personally that most of us can never truly understand. I for one say good on you Trott for being brave and not only thinking of yourself, but also your family and your team. He could have continued but at what cost..

2013-11-30T01:29:54+00:00

brendon the 1st

Guest


Your name calling and Im the ignorant one? I find your post offensive and here's why. Unlike most roarers and most likely yourself, Ive actually played sport at an elite level, I rode Speedway in Europe before repeated injuries ruined my career, and when I say injuries,Im talking real ones, in one crash I snapped my humerous bone in half, broke two ribs, shattered my shoulder blade and dislocated my collarbone, two months in traction that got me. When I returned to my team despite promises from team management, there was no spot for me, I watched other people ride for four months, with no pay, no offers from rival clubs and knew in all likelihood due to work permit restrictions I would not be allowed to ride professionally ever again. This was the hardest time in my life and I suffered extreme pain and depression, so unlike your enlightened self, I am uniquely aware of the pressures faced. who's ignorant Jimmyb?

2013-11-30T01:14:52+00:00

brendon the 1st

Guest


2013-11-29T09:18:43+00:00

JimmyB

Guest


Brendon, I'm not sure that anyone's making a hero out of him, more just defending jim against ignorant poster's. You're second sentence is bang on. I'll happily stop responding to ignorant comments on the subject, when the ignorant comments stop. Roll on Adelaide!

2013-11-29T08:11:57+00:00

Brendon the 1st

Guest


Whilst I feel fro Trott, he's obviously battling some pretty severe demons, I'm not sure making a hero out of him is going to help the guy. Might be time to leave him alone......Good luck, get well, now let's get on with the cricket.

2013-11-29T06:21:33+00:00

WaltSaffa

Guest


Do you think it's remotely feasible for someone to have a Trott-type malaise, and to recover sufficiently to resume their test career? I would think it unlikely, even without knowing the details of his case, because the added stress of knowing that everyone knows of a historic weakness would require superhuman qualities to resist. And should one expect opponents to refrain from making direct or indirect use of their knowledge? Wouldn't that be like finding out that a player can't play spin, and highmindedly electing not to exploit that weakness? The question was of course hypothetical, but in the specific case of Trott, who has apparently not been on medication for his problem, perhaps meds can help provide a sufficient cushion to allow him to return. All ignorant supposition of course.

2013-11-29T03:06:08+00:00

cantab

Guest


The English management must have thought he was good to go otherwise they would not have picked him, not for his benefit but for there own. If a batsmen doesn't have his head in the game then he's not going to be effective, that's pretty much all 'form' is. Ben Tune and Clyde Rathbone both managed there depression reasonably well and covertly until they stopped playing professional sport.

2013-11-29T02:58:58+00:00

cantab

Guest


I'm actually impressed by the attitude of most though, I thought there would be much more rubbish talk. Though well done on calling them out JB.

2013-11-28T18:03:41+00:00

Mike Caxton

Guest


Because it's more about moralising, grandstanding and posturing than anything else.

2013-11-28T14:16:03+00:00

Broken-hearted Toy

Guest


There has also been plenty if not an overwhelming amount, of understanding and sympathy/empathy. Why are people concentrating on a minority?

2013-11-28T09:56:59+00:00

Mike Caxton

Roar Rookie


I'm stressed. Don't question me.

2013-11-28T09:52:57+00:00

JimmyB

Guest


Mike, you and your English mate are both massive industrial grade tools.

2013-11-28T09:32:31+00:00

Mike Caxton

Roar Rookie


Of course, you're assuming that he has a mental illness. The use of the broad term "stress-related illness" smacked of weasel words. The subsequent attempt to blame David Warner, a man so evil that he uses his incredible powers of time travel and mind-reading to harass Trott instead of saving the world from climate change, smacked of cynical desperation. Regardless of whether Trott truly has a mental health condition, the episode plumbed new depths in bad sportsmanship. On top of that is the mindless drivel of the self-righteous mob regarding Warner being disrespectful is a new low in confected outrage. Since when is stating that an opponent is “poor”, “weak” and has “scared eyes” been cause for criticism? If anything I’m disappointed at Warner’s inability to convey a concept in effective, well-constructed English terminology. The way some people are going on I don't think many would survive a day in a kindergarten playground without bursting into tears. To paraphrase Theodore Dalrymple, a man, now retired, who is one of Britain's pre-eminent psychiatrists and writers: most people who claim to have depression aren't depressed at all; they're simply unhappy with the choices that they've made or, what they perceive as, their lot in life. In other words, it's dangerous to instantly assume a person claiming mental illness, actually has a mental illness. The propensity to do so is what actually trivialises the issue and creates alot of problems for the "sufferer" and, importantly, those around them. And, in fact, to tell someone to harden up, i.e learn to deal with the problem, is sometimes the best therapy. Does Trott have clinically diagnosed anxiety and/or depression? We still don't know. If he does, then why doesn't the English team just say so? They obviously want people to think that he does. And there's the trick: they're trying to get the general public to believe something as a fact without actually stating the fact, thereby keeping open a path of retreat. If he does, then why is he on the tour? Why subject him to a grueling schedule? So, I'm not dismissing mental health issues, particularly having suffered from a minor bout myself about 20 years ago, and having friends and family who've also dealt with it. I'm dismissing the trivialisation of it - the instant assumption that anyone who claims to have it, does have it. We are moving into the dangerous realm where personal responsibility is instantly presumed subordinate to mental health disorder and that every single mental health disorder is completely beyond the control of the sufferer. It's not a black and white issue. The idea that those who claim to be suffering disorders are beyond reproach is preposterous and anti-scientific. I find it ridiculous to be lectured with puerile statements like "get an education", by people who clearly have zero ability to be sceptical of the orthodoxy of victimhood ideology being fed to them. Just a quick anecdote: I was having a beer at a pub in London last night and an English mate who I've locked horns with over cricket many a time said to me "It's a crock. The whole thing. We weren't born yesterday. There's not a single person who knows about cricket who also thinks the [English] team's not making excuses.".

2013-11-28T08:26:30+00:00

JimmyB

Guest


It really hasn't taken long for the tools to come out and have their say has it. It's a crock, he's weak willed, the guys a chicken etc. Good onya lads, you do yourselves and your country proud!

2013-11-28T07:00:43+00:00

rajendra prasad

Roar Rookie


Poor guy chickened out.poor poor

2013-11-28T05:44:49+00:00

Sage

Guest


That's right Bush. May well lead one to question the veracity of what we've been told. I actually don't believe they would do it for a second. An Ashes on Aussie soil and you knowingly bring a mentally fragile top order batsman? And this is where the debate gets muddied between a) the affects of mental illness etc etc and deriding Trott for succumbing to it, which I don't believe is the case at all, and b) spin from English management. He was either fit to play or he wasn't and as you point out, they have an army of handlers to ensure his overall fitness. Or, Mitch really did just do his head in and that's something they would never ever admit to.

2013-11-28T05:20:36+00:00

The Bush

Roar Guru


Sage, I asked this exact question on one of the first threads about this issue. It boggles the mind that a professional outfit like the English Cricket Team, with their army of doctors, managers, agents etc let this poor bloke go one tour in this condition. It is even more mind boggling when you think about the fact that this team has a significant history of players suffering these conditions...

2013-11-28T04:30:16+00:00

Pope Paul VII

Guest


Ah Just wondered as it reminded me a bit of big old Merv letting fly. It was interesting the match referee and umps overlooked it. Probably fatigued by the whole carry on.

2013-11-28T03:39:29+00:00

Sage

Guest


It was a good spray from Siddle wasn't it. It was to young Jimmy Anderson and along the lines of "show some f---en respect". I dare say they'd been getting a bit on how hopeless they had been - last 3 Ashes, batting collapses, Mitchell Johnson being shite etc. etc; so such a crushing win caused a little over exuberance. Rules against sledging? Only if you get caught on the stump cam Father, only if you get caught.

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