Australian football is eating itself from within

By Stuart Thomas / Expert

When a discussion forum like The Roar goes into meltdown over an issue such as the disgusting banner displayed at the Sydney derby, only one thing is certain.

Everybody gets hurt.

First and foremost, Graham Arnold who deserves more respect when he is at work and despite his sometimes gruff exterior, has done or said nothing to have brought on the kind of ridicule that was directed at him on Saturday.

The fans on the night are also harmed. Whether it be an embarrassed mother or father having to feebly come up with some awkward and illogical explanation of the sign or kids who are seated far too close to violent behaviour, they all lose.

Both clubs are damaged, hopefully not irreparably. There will be an undoubted number of people there for their first derby, dipping their feet into the beautiful waters of football, who will feel scared and intimidated by the stupidity displayed.

A potential club membership looks further away to those people and as the A-League clubs continue to seek the most enviable of all commodities; the paying member, the effect on our local product shouldn’t be underestimated.

Relationships are also damaged, whether it be the FFA and the clubs involved, the FFA and media outlets, disappointed that the product has once again shown its ugly side or merely a continuation of the ridiculous cross town rivalry that some fans take on board as a blood sport.

There is no one with greater appreciation and love and passion for the games we play than yours truly, yet the disgrace that rears its ugly head every now and again on our local pitches is so far removed from passion it is absurd.

I sat with a Wanderers fan and we got on OK. I cracked a few gags about scoring goals, he took a shot at me suggesting my gluten intolerance is a lifestyle choice that only an Eastern suburbs tosser could make – and we watched the game.

Nearby, around five rows in front, there was a complete tool exhibiting what he thought was passion, yet in reality his actions were nothing more than antagonistic demonstrations of aggression.

I will not label him with his colours, that is not the point of the article. What is pertinent is the fact that he spent more time standing and turning around to face opposition supporters behind him with middle fingers raised and foul obscenities spewing from his mouth.

This, mind you, is in the ANZ members area, where standards of behaviour far higher than the ones he was exhibiting are expected, and the fundamental reason I pay for my membership.

What possible satisfaction is gained from this sort of nonsense? The outcome is division and animosity built between people. A Trump like wall. Call me an old hippie, but the spirit of sport is something of the utmost beauty. Not vitriol and hatred.

Human beings created contests to feed their innate desire to improve themselves. The modern trend to destroy others rather than win with grace and humility is something pervading all corners of life.

So-called reality TV feeds off this viciousness and while there might be some who felt that the events of Saturday night provided some sort of positive outcome, they are fools.

Fools blinded by an absurd hollowness in their own lives, that they attempt to fill through the violence they partake in, while watching some wonderful young men who just enjoy playing football.

Football has never had more curious people tuning in to the occasional broadcast on Foxtel. Figures clearly show that the number of more casual watchers has increased. Saturday sets these figures back, it makes the game less desirable for future free-to-air carriers.

If you have any doubt about this, try and source a copy of the Nine Network’s reporting of the derby on Sunday night. The first few words of the throw to the ad escape me, but it ended with ‘in a night of soccer violence.’

Peter Overton said the words as though he had won a small fortune in a lottery. Whether we like it or not, when the game hums along in Australia and all is hunky dory, everyone jumps on board.

Unfortunately as soon as something happens akin to Saturday just passed, the mainstream will leap like vultures and devour the A-League without a second thought.

The old saying of any news being good news does not apply in the case of Australian football. In fact, no news at all might just be better, especially on derby weekends in Sydney.

The even larger issue here is that ingrained stereotypes that stem from ancient times of ethnic allegiances to clubs, flares and violence and a general perception of football as a dirty and ‘wog’ game are so easily rehashed by the narrow minded and those seeking to hurt the game.

Let’s not kid ourselves and think that those stereotypes and attitudes don’t spread far deeper into our culture that just our pitches, clubs and supporter bases.

The hearts and minds of the wider population are susceptible to broad sweeping news reports that label and marginalise the game. In a way, you can’t blame the somewhat casual observer for forming some rather ill-informed ideas around football.

It is football’s job to cease providing the ammunition. Therein lies the ultimate tragedy of the situation. It is the game itself, one that has strived for decades, fought racism, stereotypes and bigotry, a game given a kick start by the A-League, that is eating itself from within.

The irony of this situation should not be lost on anyone. On one hand, I purchase my two beautiful little girls a Sydney FC t-shirt and they want to go to a game.

We go to a game and they both want to play. I am lucky enough to coach the eldest and see her first foray into the world of football be a successful one.

They run around the house through the week talking about both Milos’, Ninkovic and Dimitrijevic, but also some other great A-League names like Besart Berisha and they still remember Aaron Mooy.

They collect A-League football cards and attend an away match up at Central Coast Stadium. Then, through not fault of my own, I have to explain why a picture of Graham Arnold appears at the ground with an enormous penis emanating from his mouth.

The sadness of A-League members and supporters being responsible for it is beyond belief. The notion of actually defending the behaviour is quite possibly one of the most curious observations I have ever made in terms of human behaviour.

The almost certain result ensues, everybody gets criticised. The FFA gets whacked. The Wanderers fans all get tarnished. Sydney FC become embroiled and are also to blame.

Everyone is a target. Even us. Just the everyday football fan who goes to work on the Monday and cops a ribbing or hears a comment as someone says, ‘bloody soccer fans at it again.’

Robbin Slater also copped it this time round. Yes, I’m sure Robbie has a lot to do with what went on at ANZ on Saturday.

Sadly, another Monday rolls around with the same old headlines and the same old fools responsible and the game eats itself from within.

Maybe I am an old hippie and the sight of the RBB and the Cove sitting together, cheering, celebrating and shaking hands at game’s end is all a bit Woodstock for some.

Yet as things stand, football appears to be at the mercy of a group of people who don’t care one iota about the game. If they did, they might be able to admit to the stupidity of their actions and stop tearing my game apart.

The Crowd Says:

2017-02-23T14:23:12+00:00

Doc Disnick

Roar Guru


Okay Stuart, let's see if you're actually being sincere, or just pretending to be. By all means, mention this little double negative, along with why it's inappropriate. I really am quite chuffed at the opportunity to be educated by a school teacher. Please don't avoid it for a third time, just educate me if you're confident I'm wrong. "I consider myself a good person" Then you should have no issue providing evidence to support this comment: "I stand by the claim that you are a part of a crack team determined to question and bring down the game" I've made thousands of comments on the football forum. It shouldn't be hard to reference where I've questioned or tried to bring the game down should this be the case. A good person would apologise if such evidence can't be provided.

2017-02-23T13:15:53+00:00

Leonard

Guest


Many (Most?) readers would already know of 'Godwin's Rule' which is that a weblog thread has stopped being worthwhile once Hitler or the Nazis have been cited. Maybe the letters 'AFL' are the Godwin point in a soccer thread?

AUTHOR

2017-02-23T09:12:24+00:00

Stuart Thomas

Expert


Yeah I cant wait to read his latest offering. I just can't work out where the vitriol and animosity comes from. He quotes a satirical article 5-6 weeks after its publication that clearly celebrated all of the contributors to the football tab and plays the victim. He obviously misses sarcasm and clearly fails to identify a double negative when he uses one at end of a comment. I consider myself a good person and my fall back position is to like everyone, i'd love to have a drink with disnick, a man unwilling to provide an actual identity. My name is clear, i'm happy to tell him where I work, provide a phone number and am more than happy to meet him face to face. The world is a beautiful place with myriad characters, we all play a role, no need to spread animosity.

2017-02-23T04:05:00+00:00

Ian

Guest


Rick is trying to prove he is right and someone else is wrong again. Always a joy to have this forum clogged up with your BS.

2017-02-23T04:03:34+00:00

Ian

Guest


'otherwise; once again showing this forum beholds the highest level of hypocrisy & hypocrites known to man'. Rick - you are a harsh man. From someone who thinks they are the ultimate intellectual but doesn't contribute much to the site. You know you unjustifiably in love with yourself. And you really aren't that clever. And you really need to work on your jokes.

2017-02-23T04:00:26+00:00

Ian

Guest


Yes LH, I can't remember the last time I saw something remotely violent at a Roar home game. Occasional over the top swearing, there is simply no BS at Suncorp. Let's hope it stays that way.

2017-02-23T03:58:40+00:00

Ian

Guest


Don't worry Stuart, your articles are written in a different style to Rick's one or two, keep going. They are a good read.

2017-02-23T03:55:56+00:00

Ian

Guest


Agree, on the antics to have international sportspeople while in Melbourne catch an AFL ball, is definitely cringeworthy.

2017-02-23T01:46:55+00:00

Doc Disnick

Roar Guru


You didn't like the vid I see. :)

2017-02-23T01:32:30+00:00

Perry Bridge

Guest


#Waz (please read - I've put some effort into this and I'm trying to avoid code vs code rubbishing etc) As it is - the Banana incident. The lady was treated thus: Wide coverage in all the media - so, firstly no sweeping under the carpet. (however - I recognise that sometimes it might be best to not draw too much attention to some incidents). Club: “We will revoke her membership,” “It’s against the law No. 1 and against our code of conduct.” She was banned indefinitely from Power Games. She was offered 'education' The player: Eddie Betts (Adelaide player against whom the banana and 'monkey' slurs were directed) stated that he forgave her and doesn't want her banned for life etc and should be welcomed back to the footy. “This is all about education, it’s never too late to learn,’’ said Betts. “No one is born racist ... it’s ingrained in them somewhere down the track. “It all comes down to that, to be educated.” Ironically - Throwing bananas at black players has been notorious as a racist attack in European and English football since the 1970s and ’80s. Stadium: “The Adelaide Oval takes these matters very seriously. Racial vilification is totally unacceptable,” “Whether or not it is racially motivated, the hurling of objects is absolutely banned at the Adelaide Oval.” Stadium authorities would enforce a ban, if that penalty was imposed on the spectator by Port Adelaide and the AFL. Any total ban from Oval events, if requested, would be discussed with Cricket Australia. It was a Port Adelaide fan who did it - a lady. The fans reaction: Port Adelaide fans took to social media in disgust at their fellow fan’s behaviour. A post on The Alberton Crowd Facebook page said: “To the idiot who thought it would be a great idea to throw a banana at Eddie Betts, well done. You’ve now tainted all Port fans with the same brush and we will hear about how feral we are all week.” So - it wasn't condoned, or defended. No one appears to have said you get away with worse at other sports/codes. What you can see even in a case like this - as much as key board warriors on a thread like this might be determined that she should be banned for life and become a social outcast - - the reality as things can play out very much differently in real life. If the player in question is willing to forgive and use the moment as an awareness/educational opportunity instead - then that should be good enough for the rest of us. As it was - no one made a complaint to the police that I can see on that one. Another player intercepted the banana so the player in question wasn't actually struck by it - and nearby fans were only too pleased to dob her in (she'd apparently been an abusive loud mouth all year!!). Back then to the case of an offensive banner - whether it be the Mosques banner, or the WSW one - it may still come down to a case by case approach. The Collingwood fans who displayed the 'Stop the mosques' were also members of the United Patriots Front. They were daring the AFL and police to make a big deal about it - gives them publicity and notoriety. That one WAS referred to the police by the AFL. The dilemma is that NO sporting code is immune to members of clubs/general fans being of any particular political view point. No one does social media background checks on potential club members?? All that sporting codes can really do is refer to police where appropriate and ban where appropriate. The AFL and players came out firmly against the banner and its message. That is genuine. There are practicing Muslim AFL players and officials. A fine line though is - and in this case (WSW banner) it is no different - the bigger the hoopla about it - the more attention that is brought to something that doesn't deserve it. Certainly on match day you can ensure the broadcasters avoid showing it. Security should ensure it is pulled down immediately and that the details of the offending banner 'owners' if able to be established are recorded pending punitive actions. Then it comes down to club/venue/police/FFA to work through the punishment. And this takes us back to the 'streaker' approach. No longer do the cameras focus on them. They get smacked down by security and hit with hefty financial fines. I don't know about bans - might be case by case. What has seemed the biggest challenge has been the FFA managing a cultural change amongst it's 'active' supporter groups. The AFL went through a similar process a few years back with cheer squads. (for better or worse!!).

2017-02-23T00:28:24+00:00

brian drian

Guest


nobody on the football tab is remotely interested in your opinions. take your pathetic attempts at trolling to the insular world your sport lives in.

2017-02-22T22:22:24+00:00

DH

Guest


You must agree that the atmosphere has improved significantly since the NT abandoned their childish behaviour, hasn't been any significant incident since.

2017-02-22T21:24:17+00:00

Buddy

Guest


I have refrained from making any comments on what took place on Saturday night, partly due to the fact that there are more than enough opinions and comments doing the rounds but also because I have witnessed similar and far worse happenings in the sport over the years, bans, fines, protests, ground closures, fires, wall collapses, destruction of trains, buildings and other public properties, vandalism on a huge scale, and ultimately deaths of people attending sport. All that in the name of pride and passion? Tribalism in the extreme irrespective of what its origins are, and whether or not a team is 100 years old or was put together by some marketing gurus trying to create sonething new and not too contrived. I noted the language of the media last weekend was all about hatred of cross town rivals. Bitter rivals is strong enough but really; hatred? Earlier in the year in a pre match interview, Alex Brosque was talking the same language. He stated that he hates Western Sydney Wanderers as all SFC players should. I quite accept that all of that could just be banter and trying to build up an event to generate interest and put bums on seats but I also accept that it can have the tendency to create a strong reaction from some quarters and particularly the fans that occupy "active areas". Inside and outside the grounds the songs go on about Western Sydney scum, we pay for your benefits etc and as I witnessed on Saturday night the vast majority of WSW fans enthusiastically sang " La La La La La, we rule this city". The point being that on the one hand, the supposed rivalry is whipped up into an absolute frenzy by governing bodies, media, supporters groups, social media but then we don't expect any kind of extreme reaction to it? In my experience when you want that type of billing, be prepared for far worse than an obscene banner or chair throwing. There is no argument to say anything is justified, simply that when you build tribalism to include hatred and bitterness, be prepared for some monsters as they are waiting to pounce.

2017-02-22T12:23:24+00:00

Nemesis

Guest


Stuart, you are one of THE most courteous & civil contributors to this Forum. Ignore the poser who slandered you, he has delusions of grandeur that are beyond a joke. No one pays attention to the self-congratulatory mindless nonsense he posts on Football. Keep up the great writing.

2017-02-22T12:10:13+00:00

Doc Disnick

Roar Guru


"slanderous attack by Rick this evening" That's pretty rich coming from you Stuart. "I stand by the claim that you are a part of a crack team determined to question and bring down the game" You reference one quote from me on this site questioning the game of football or trying to bring it down & I promise I'll leave this forum. When you can't, I expect a sincere apology.

2017-02-22T11:55:37+00:00

Doc Disnick

Roar Guru


Stuart — before I answer, I'm curious your take on this double negative, along with why you should never end with one? Midfielder — it's said you believe the number of clicks on code war threads is an indication of growth in the A-League.

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2017-02-22T11:30:33+00:00

Stuart Thomas

Expert


Thanks Northerner, your words mean a lot to me today considering the questioning of my mental health by an insensitive fool called brisvegas and the slanderous attack by Rick this evening. Apparently writing from a completely honest perspective about a serious incident in the game is ammunition enough for people to feel they know and can judge someone. I have made it quite clear that writing the article wasn't a lot of fun and the feedback has been in a similiar vein. A few people disagreed with me today or questioned certain things, that doesn't mean we want to kill each other. Those that do, strike me as the same types, full of vitriol and aggressiont, that exis in the supporter groups at the heart of the issues in question.

2017-02-22T11:29:38+00:00

Midfielder

Guest


Stuart Your original post was correct... I have been on this site almost since it started as has Punter ... About 18 months maybe two years ago, I stopped reading the posts of many posters ... they come to abuse, criticise and confuse ... derail if they can... In the early days of the Roar it was important to reply ... but no longer and has not been I think for maybe four years... They add of our net clicks now so in a round about way they are helping Football... May I suggest as a relative new comer you simply don"t read the posts of some.. then you don't get upset ... and I find it works simply don't reply no matter what has been said ...

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2017-02-22T11:21:06+00:00

Stuart Thomas

Expert


Rick, You made a claim that i said things about batons and shields not being needed at games, which I did not. I stand by the claim that you are a part of a crack team determined to question and bring down the game, which was written in a satirical article about the wonderful nature of the tab. You have not really pointed out the supposed contraditction you mention. It is unclear. Could you point out the bullies that I endorse. I dont think in values, I think in ethics and morality. You really don't know me apart from my writing, and I love engaging with everyone on the tab and more broadly If something I have said offended you I sincerely apologise, life is not something to be lived with hatred and vitriol and that is reflected in my articles. Perhaps we can find a common ground and a place of respect between us. By the way, try not to end posts with a double negative, the Roarers will jump all over that. Hoping to share a bevy with you soon. Stuart

2017-02-22T11:11:56+00:00

Doc Disnick

Roar Guru


I'm sorry Chris, I only go to football matches. I'll leave it to people like you to watch giant c@#$'s being flung about and something resembling a junior league special skills camp.

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