Referee basher? Get out and don't come back

By Mary Konstantopoulos / Expert

How many games of rugby league did you watch on the weekend?

Usually when someone asks me that question, I answer with three or four at least.

This weekend, I watched one game – the least I have watched in many years. It was only my sheer devotion to the Parramatta Eels that saw me tune in to their game against the Gold Coast Titans on Saturday afternoon.

So what happened?

I got to a point this weekend where I just needed a break (and that’s unfortunate because it meant that I missed some cracking games of footy).

I didn’t need a break from the game that I love, but instead I needed some time away from the ravenous pack of wolves that are particular sectors of rugby league media, intent on doing whatever they can to hurt the game that I grew up with and love so much.

Last week, Andrew Webster wrote a piece about Matt Cecchin – a man many consider to be the best referee in our game. He is certainly one of our most experienced referees.

This weekend he refereed his 300th game when he took the field for the game between the Penrith Panthers and the Canberra Raiders.

Unfortunately, at the end of this year Cecchin will be lost to the NRL because he has had enough and made the decision to retire. I certainly don’t blame him especially when you consider the noise surrounding him this year.

It all started last year during the Rugby League World Cup when Cecchin and members of his family received death threats following what was perceived to be Cecchin making an incorrect call in the semi-final between Tonga and England last November (its worth noting that Cecchin made the correct call).

It has continued this year, particularly following a game earlier this year where Cecchin blew 33 penalties and a fight erupted later in the game.

That article made me sick.

Matt Cecchin. (Photo by Mark Evans/Getty Images)

When did rugby league fans turn into people like that? When did we turn into people that think it is appropriate in any circumstance to threaten a human being involved in our game because you think they made a wrong call or made an error of judgement?

When did we forget that referees are human and make mistakes just like the rest of them? When I read that article it was one of the few times I have been ashamed of the game and some of the people that support it.

To be fair, I don’t blame fans completely for this. I also blame some sectors of the media who use their platforms to whinge and whine about every 50/50 refereeing decision that is made and to hang the referees out to dry whenever they make an incorrect decision. We’ve all seen it on countless occasions.

And it needs to stop. Because when those with influence in the game carry on like pork chops, it gives other people the licence to do the same and creates a wave of ill sentiment towards our officials.

Unfortunately, though instead of the media coming out and admitting that they have a role to play in this unfortunate situation we have found ourselves in with officials, we have instead had many members of that pack of wolves come out and wipe their hands clean of the whole mess. They say they are there to commentate on the game.

Or that they feel sorry for the referees. But then they take every opportunity they can to put the boot in.

There were few media commentators that I wanted to applaud this week on social media, but one of them was Warren Smith who tweeted that as part of the media he needed to accept his role in contributing to a narrative where referees have become the centre of attention in our game.

When did we stop commentating and commenting on the actual footy? When did we stop finding joy in the amazing feats of our incredible players? When did some parts of the rugby league media become boring, old, whiny sooks?

When did plenty of the remainder become former players without media skills or training?

Matt Cecchin
(AAP Image/Action Photographics, Renee McKay)

It’s not something that I like and it’s something I think that we, as a game need to fix quickly – even if it means revoking media access for some of the old guard and seeing if they can use their large reach to do something positive instead of denigrate the game that puts food on their table.

Here is what I am committing to.

I am one voice. But I promise that I will never use that voice to denigrate an official or to carry on like a pork chop when I think an incorrect decision is made. I will also make a better effort to understand the rules of the game, so that rather than taking what commentators say at face value, I can make a decision for myself.

I also commit to no longer clicking on articles that shame or denigrate referees or contribute to a pack mentality which sees fans given licence to attack a referee.

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I am asking you to do the same. Because our game cannot take place without referees. And if our referees cannot do their job or are fearful about making a decision because of backlash towards them or their families then we will very soon be in a situation where we do not have young men and women putting up their hands to referee our game.

And if you are someone who thinks that it is appropriate to threaten a referee because of a decision they have made on the field, then I have a really simply message for you – go and don’t come back. Because you aren’t welcome in rugby league.

Rugby league is a family and I want to be part of a family that supports each other and helps every part of the game to get better. Not part of a family that will lead target our officials just to get a few lousy clicks.

The Crowd Says:

2018-08-16T04:49:39+00:00

Larry1950

Guest


Hi Mary, better late than never for a comment. As a bronco supporter, I thought the 3 quick successive penalties to the Cowboys turned that game and at first had a view that they were 'crowd friendly' decisions because the Broncs were well on top. However, on reflection after a night's sleep, I watched highlights of the game & reckon the Broncos could have easily avoided giving those penalties away, even if they got back further than the cowboy defence or got off the tackled player more quickly. Basically, don't allow sympathetic calls by being a stickler for the rules. So, it wasn't a stitch up, they blew it. There, I've said it.

2018-08-08T07:34:23+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


Clump has a rabid anti rugby league obsession CC. He doesn’t even deny it. To carry on in such a ridiculous manner suggests he lacks any real confidence in the code he follows. At best it’s childish behaviour on a grand scale. Regarding the ref bashing, Cecchin resigning has really set Rothfield and his cronies back in my view. He has acted scurrilously and is a blight on the game. We deserve better than him.

2018-08-08T06:40:43+00:00

Crosscoder

Roar Guru


Clip has a bad habit of ignoring the poor TV ratings in Sydney for the AFL clubs(one for 36years) domiciled here, only applying the crowds in their updated all seater stadiums. NRL has been fairly dominant on Pay Tv with the majority of highest raters.But apparently that doesn't count. He did after all mention inner Sydney,when in fact Sydney's population is at last reports concentrated,North,South and indeed West. Serious long term anti rl obsession,is not good for one's health.Maybe Clip would be better served in the AFL threads, asking why Mr Gaff received a wet lettuce penalty of 8 weeks ,for his onfield disgrace? We have a problem with referee bashing, in which the media has to share part of the blame, with their continuous agitation.I note Rothfield is now backtracking ,when he was at the forefront of all the ref dramas earlier.Trying for a get out pass.

2018-08-08T06:05:08+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


Now you are just lying clump. I have never claimed the nrl always beats the afl on fox every game. It simply isn’t true. What I have said ad nauseam but you choose not to understand is that the nrl significantly outrates the afl on fox overall every weekend. Last weekend the afl had 9 games and the 8 nrl had 8. Nrl games averaged 230000 viewers and the afl 175000 viewers. And that’s a good week for the afl and standard week for the nrl. The afl only gets better numbers in metro areas but not every week every game. I’ve said that consistently. I can’t help it if you are too bigoted to understand simple truths. It isn’t my fault you hate rugby league so much you have to tell porkies. That is your problem. I suppose that’s what comes from being a narrow minded sporting bigot.

2018-08-08T04:52:11+00:00

clipper

Guest


You keep moving the goalposts. First you say the AFL never beats the NRL on fox. When I produce evidence of it happening 3 times in one night you move your story to 'on the weekend' It's not semantics. If you say 'generally wins' that implies there are a few times when the other side wins. As I've said, I have not seen the NRL beat the AFL on a metro basis on a night, weekend or week this year.

2018-08-08T01:40:03+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


Thanks clump. You reveal your ignorance yet again. This isn’t about network wars. This is about how many people watch football on television. I have not recorded one weekend this year where afl has outrated the nrl on either fox or regional ratings. Reason? It hasn’t happened. As for the metro data, you are playing with semantics. Generally or usually who cares? The problem is you, as usual, are unable to cope with anything that is inconsistent with your pathetic little afl suburban view. The facts prove you wrong as usual,

2018-08-08T01:28:28+00:00

clipper

Guest


We'll have to disagree on that - I would think that each network would place being no. 1 for the week and year as the pinnacle. I would also disagree about NRL always winning the Fox ratings - Just look at the ratings for Saturday 4/8- The AFL had the top 3 rating games. I would also say the AFL just about always wins the metro, not generally wins. I could be wrong, but have not seen a day when they haven't won the metro this year.

2018-08-07T06:51:29+00:00

RoryStorm

Guest


This year's "buzz" words. Cracking (describing just how good something was/is). Lock (how likely it is a player will be picked for a certain position). There's others I can't think of right now but I'm sure there's others out there who can add other buzz words.

2018-08-07T06:35:32+00:00

Tingo Tango

Guest


Exactly right Muzz Everyone is looking for someone else to blame. The refs are an easy target that makes me wish I followed another sport sometimes when I hear the over the top critics. For me the NRL are probably the best officials in world sport. They have so much more to focus on than most other sports with so many bodies in motion and a ball that can move in so many directions. In the end all the whingers should do us a favour and go out and get their referees certificate. It must be that easy they could be refereeing SOO matches in no time

2018-08-07T05:36:04+00:00

Afghan72

Guest


I watch most football casually (and enjoy all) and while whinging about refereeing decisions is universal, the degree to which it dominates the narrative in League is unrivalled. I am a massive soccer fan and it is not unusual to see refereeing decisions decide a game where scoring is critical and 'staging' is rife. Coaches, commentators, pundits and fans alike will have a rant about this but it doesn't seem to reach peak hysteria post game or hang around between rounds as the major source of angst among the faithful like it does in league. There is less of the 'refereeing is ruining the game' discussion in other codes and I am pretty sure that visually and statistically the rugby league being played now is both better refereed and more entertaining than the dire and violent wars of attrition played out in the not too distant past. I definitely agree that the commentariat in particular need to tone down the emphasis on refereeing decisions, take off their sepia tinted glasses and take the lead in improving the standard of debate and discussion surrounding the code.

2018-08-07T04:56:03+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


That’s a very simplistic narrow minded approach to ratings clump which ignores both the regional and fox ratings. It’s been well documented this year how well the nrl ratings have held up while afl ratings went into free fall. As for weekend footy the afl generally wins the metro and the nrl always wins the regional and fox ratings. That is a fact afl fanboy.

2018-08-07T03:52:30+00:00

clipper

Guest


Justin, it's you, not me that gets confused with ratings. I know how they work - the channel that gets the best percentage wins the week, the channel that wins most weeks wins the year. Ch 7 have already won the year with 21/40 wins. On the weekend there were two days when 7 was 14 percentage points ahead when 7 was showing AFL and 9 showing NRL. No doubt this helped them win the week and by doing so the year.

2018-08-07T02:25:36+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


Got your bile out for the day clump?

2018-08-07T02:07:59+00:00

Boydy-in-Brisbane

Roar Rookie


I don't know what you get paid to write rugby league articles Mary (nor do I want to know), but I do know that if it's in the same ballpark as the top NRL referees, (about $100K) a season, I'd expect better from you as I do from them. The money they get paid these days means that they can afford to be professionals and by that, I mean full-time, and not have to be supported by a day job, not professional in the sense that they must be upstanding representatives of the code and above being "human". I do understand your empathy for them, however, we can't just bury our heads in the sand and roll out cliches like, "they're only human" and "we all make mistakes". People's welfare and careers rest on the decisions they make and someone like a Ricky Stuart, for instance, could easily lose his coaching job over the howlers the Raiders have been on the wrong end of this year (btw, I'm a Tigers supporter and have my own axe to grind with refs but I won't go there). Some of the fundamental mistakes are at best laughable, most are teeth gnashing. I'm also over the number of times we need to go upstairs. On the weekend, Henry Perenara was literally one metre and unobstructed away from a simple close-to-the-line try and yet he felt the need to ask the bloke sitting 75 kms away at Fox Studios what he thought. Did he need to see what the Colonel's special was so he knew what to pick up for dinner on the way home? Please, give me a break! Like you and most of your readers, I too believe as you do that threats of violence against referees should never be allowed to happen but you'll have to forgive me when I say "No Mary, I won't overlook and forgive their ineptness". It will invariably cost a team a premiership at some stage, particularly at the rate that the standard is diminishing.

2018-08-07T01:16:22+00:00

clipper

Guest


How could anyone have missed that - it was all over the news that the Jets, playing in a suburban comp, got more people than NRL stalwarts Canterbury, Manly or Parramatta. It certainly isn't anything for the NRL to be happy about - perhaps they should swap them over!

2018-08-07T00:24:43+00:00

Short Memory

Roar Rookie


Great article Mary. I hope more people follow your (and Warren Smith's) lead. We hold 80 minute players up as heroes, and pay them millions of dollars if they are able to do a top level job in their position only most of the time. Yet the refs play 80 mins every game and are integral to every single play inthe match. And we expect them to be perfect. All the time. That's just nuts. Two refs is not the problem. The bunker is not the problem. The penalty crackdown is not the problem. The problem is with us - the fans and the commentators and the sports media. We expect perfection from officials that we don't expect from players. We are increasingly (society wide) inclined to blame someone else for our problems ("We were robbed!") and we are too easily seduced into anonymous abuse on comments, forums and social media. A number of posters here have pointed out that there's a big difference between saying "That was a rubbish decision" and making a death threat. What they also need to understand is that there is a broad range of unhealthy and (as you note) uncceptable behavior in between. So let's start by acknowledging that no game is ever decided SOLELY by a poor refereeing decision. The notion tht 34 players and 2 coaches have doen everything perfectly and the final difference comes down solely to the man or woman with the whistle or flag or coloured button is a self-serving fantasy. However, I don't believe that not talking about the refereeing, or refraining completely from criticising refereeing is practical or helpful - any more than not discussing or criticising players. Personally, I would love to see a weekly column devoted to an INTELLIGENT AND INFORMED review of the refereeing across the round - noting the great calls, the controversial calls (and reproducing the rule and the current admistration' interpretation) and consistency of application accross matches. I think the absence of an objective and informed report on officiating allows a vacuum that attracts angry rants and uninformed posturing - because there's nothing to point to and cal bull An objective and considered discussion like this would do more to stop the rot than adopting an "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" stance.

2018-08-06T23:44:26+00:00

Justin Kearney

Roar Rookie


Well it was a sweet story deucer. One of your better ones. You have a fertile imagination.

2018-08-06T22:46:03+00:00

Jacko

Guest


Yaeh you are right I dont need to get too worked up I just feel that having a go at the ref is not Ref bashing.......I like to point out the refs errors but certainly do not condone death threats.....I also wonder why this ref decided to keep going for 12 mths after this incident and feel that he has just decided enough is enough rather than the 1 incident making him give up reffing

2018-08-06T22:44:45+00:00

duecer

Guest


Justin - I agree - if you're a NRL fan, like the father in the story above, there is no funny bit.

2018-08-06T22:15:40+00:00

poles

Guest


And I'm glad people with your point of views are on the decline and losing the battle of popular opinion. The sooner we can get your way to selfish thinking out of the mainstream consciousness, the better of we'll be. Good riddance.

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