'Unsafe place': CA provides personal security for Candice Warner and kids after 'weak, gutless' abuse in Adelaide

By Christy Doran / Editor

Cricket Australia has offered personal security to Candice Warner after the wife of Australian cricketer David spoke out about the “vile abuse” her family is receiving and said attending matches was no longer safe.

After she revealed her concerns, CA told News Corp that Candice had been given access to a security guard at the Brisbane Test when she wanted to move around the ground.

The former ironwoman, who is forging a successful career in the media landscape, recalled a story on breakfast radio on Monday, where she said she was targeted on Saturday afternoon during the second Test against the West Indies.

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Candice, who was with her three young daughters, said she was abused while walking to an area of the ground where she could talk with David.

“Saturday afternoon at Adelaide Oval, just before the lunch break, the girls wanted to see their dad,” Candice said on Triple M’s Summer Breakfast.

“So we went from one area of Adelaide Oval to the other. It was probably about 200m.

“In that time, I had two of my three daughters, my eight-year-old and my three-year-old, we were walking hand-in-hand, and as we’re walking past a huge group of people, it was a group of five or six men who just started throwing vile abuse at me.

“I continued to walk and then I just stopped and I looked around at this group of men and it was one guy in particular. And they were laughing and they were pointing. And they thought what they did was okay.

“So I decided to confront them. I didn’t have to, but with my girls in my hands, I thought it was really important to confront them because for us, my actions need to mirror the messages I give to my kids.

“So I confronted them and like any group of men who have been drinking, they were weak, they were gutless, they didn’t own up to what they did and the man who was actual yelling this abuse was hiding behind his friend.”

Candice Warner (L) – the wife of Australian cricket star David – has hit out at the abuse her family continues to receive. Photo: Mark Metcalfe/Getty Images

Her radio colleague then asked what Candice actually said to the men.

“I said ‘Do you feel good about yourself, trying to intimidate me, to belittle me, embarrass me in front of my kids? You clearly don’t have kids yourself, it’s not okay. It’s not okay to bully someone, it’s not okay to make fun of other people’,” she said.

“The thing that disappointed me was, one, the fact they thought it was funny, two, that they couldn’t own up to their mistake, but the fact that in a packed stadium, when they could see a mother with two kids clearly in distress, my girls were upset, not one single person came to my assistance. Not one.

“The sad thing is that in a time when we’re trying to encourage more women, more girls to participate in sport, to attend sport, that I’m now starting to feel like it’s not safe for me and my kids to attend sport and support their father.”

While none of the men apologised, Candice said one man later apologised via social media.

Candice said with David away as much as he was because of his cricket commitments, she had taken on the role as mother and father and believed it was important to set an example of what was right and wrong.

Candice added her eldest daughter, Ivy, had asked why she had approached the men.

“Darling, you’ve got to understand, this is not OK,” Candice said.

“We won’t tolerate this, this is unacceptable no matter male, female, how big, you need to learn to stand up for yourself and this is why.

“What I was so surprised about was not one person who could see me, visibly upset, distressed and my two daughters and people were happy to just watch this. I know if it was the other way around, I would definitely go and see what’s going on.

“Now we go to the cricket and I’m starting to feel like it’s an unsafe place for me and my kids to be at.”

David Warner failed to break his Test century drought against the West Indies. Photo: Quinn Rooney – CA/Cricket Australia via Getty Images

Candice Warner said she was grateful for the CA response.

“I’m OK, it’s just when I’ve got my kids with me, situations like this are not OK,” she told News Corp.

“It’s not the first time. This happens quite a bit and with the Test series against South Africa, it’s nice to know that if a situation was to arise like 2018, that I do feel safe and my family feels protected.

“Not just me, but all the players’ families.

“It’s nice CA has offered. They said they don’t want me feeling unsafe. And as I said, the same goes for the other families as well. The priority is that everyone feels safe.

“I don’t want it to get to a point where we can’t go to a game anymore.

“I’m saddened and disappointed that it has got to this and most people are generally very respectful.

“It’s nice to know that if need be, there’s someone there to look after us.”

The Adelaide incident continued a week of headlines for the Warner family after David had withdrawn his application to contest his leadership ban following the infamous ball-tampering scandal against the Proteas in 2018.

David said he did not want “cricket’s dirty laundry” to be aired by the re-opening of the events of 2018.

Candice slammed Cricket Australia for putting player welfare to the side.

“To put our family, also his teammates, through everything again and the disappointing thing for David is this has been dragged out for so long,” she said.

“Everything first kicked off in February (reviewing Warner’s leadership ban) and it’s now December and still no decision.

“It’s still raw, we go to cricket so often watching David play and there’s always people yelling things out at the crowd.

“My daughters proudly wear their dad’s T-shirt with their dad’s name on the back. The fact that my daughters have to cop abuse because of incidents that have happened in the past is not fair.

“David always puts family first, he’s fiercely protective of myself and the three girls, and cricket is not everything, cricket is what he does, but cricket does not define him and the person he is.

“The fact that there was a lack of player welfare (from Cricket Australia), and no welfare about David and our family speaks volumes.”

Steve Smith says David Warner’s leadership ban is “fundamentally wrong”. Photo: Quinn Rooney – CA/Cricket Australia via Getty Images

Warner’s teammate Steve Smith, who also copped a one-year ban from Cricket Australia for the ball-tampering scandal but has twice captained Australia in the absence of Pat Cummins, said the leadership was “fundamentally wrong”.

“From my point of view, banning for life from leadership is just fundamentally wrong,” said Smith, who served as Australia’s stand-in captain in Adelaide.

“David served his time like I did.

“For us, we know he’s a leader around the group, and on and off the field he’s doing a tremendous job.

“It’s been a difficult one for him, it’s been a difficult week. David has said he’s done and disaster (with the appeal) and get on with it.”

The headlines come as Warner searches for form ahead of a crunch series against South Africa, starting at The Gabba on Saturday.

The 36-year-old opener has not scored a Test century since the start of 2020 and was the only player in Australia’s top five not to score a half-century against the West Indies.

The Crowd Says:

2022-12-15T00:30:46+00:00

Takeadeepbreath

Roar Rookie


Sorry, I'm back again....I apologise for everything that was said that has obviously offended you. Let's start over by "takingaverydeepbreath" this time.

2022-12-14T23:56:27+00:00

Cam

Roar Rookie


I never thought to try vegemite on both sides of my toast, it actually sounds pretty good. There is some logistics I will need to puzzle out, but I'm going to give it a go. Cheers!

2022-12-14T23:52:22+00:00

Cam

Roar Rookie


Three things I know for sure and certain, (1) there are plenty of idiots in the world. (2) if you add alcohol, that behaviour is exacerbated. (3) if you put yourself in the public eye, actively seek public attention and make money from public opinion, it is inevitable some of the feedback will be negative. I'm sure this isn't breaking news to Candace and she is a strong woman who would easily handle a few yobbos at the cricket.

2022-12-14T10:10:30+00:00

Clear as mud

Guest


I hope I never... I hope I never... have to see you.... again..... whooooooaaooooooah

2022-12-14T09:42:05+00:00

Takeadeepbreath

Roar Rookie


You are correct…hope you feel better now!! Hope to chat again soon…

2022-12-14T09:23:02+00:00

jok hawkins

Guest


The Megan & Harry of Cricket. Has ring to it. I won't be digging. You can argue your point with nuance. But you did not.

2022-12-14T08:42:49+00:00

Clear as mud

Guest


but you are witless except for the suffix kind

2022-12-14T07:37:48+00:00

Takeadeepbreath

Roar Rookie


Suggest you takeadeepbreath…fair comment imo

2022-12-14T07:31:22+00:00

Simoc

Roar Rookie


Cut this out! I'm very fond of Meghan. But she should have married me. People are allowed to make poor choices.

2022-12-14T05:02:45+00:00

Takeadeepbreath

Roar Rookie


They were made for each other and have so much in common...both innocent victims and now being treated and judged unfairly. Give me a break....you cannot have your vegemite on both sides.

2022-12-13T21:08:43+00:00

qwetzen

Roar Rookie


People need to get their priorities right. I have got my priorities right thank you. Definitive proof first, opinion second.

2022-12-13T21:02:22+00:00

qwetzen

Roar Rookie


As in difficult to bear...

2022-12-13T21:01:20+00:00

qwetzen

Roar Rookie


I actually don’t believe her And that, I'm sorry to say for the hoard of Ms Warner fans, is a perfectly valid opinion until someone produces some evidence that the incident happened. Again, Jussie Smollett.

2022-12-13T20:56:47+00:00

qwetzen

Roar Rookie


You know this? You were there? Hang on jameswm. You believe Ms Warner but you weren't there. Can't have it both ways mate.

2022-12-13T20:50:55+00:00

qwetzen

Roar Rookie


Your first reaction is to not believe her? No, my first reaction is to look for verification. It's basic journalism (and reason). If someone you know nothing of makes a noteworthy claim, wouldn't you try and verify it? In the regularly spoken words of House MD, "People lie". And in this case, isn't it a bit odd that there are no pix on socials of this incident?

2022-12-13T16:45:50+00:00

Rowdy

Roar Rookie


"You're not the only one who's made mistakes, but they're the only things that you can truly call your own." sang Billy Joel

2022-12-13T16:43:18+00:00

Rowdy

Roar Rookie


I think you could sit on a beach and eat ice cream with Emilia Clarke and still find something to complain about.

2022-12-13T10:20:20+00:00

Rellum

Roar Guru


I want to walk back some my earlier comment. I am letting my personal stresses spill out into a post and that is not ok. I went to far. I want to be clear it is not ok to abuse someone, in front of their kids or not. My issues with Warner and his wife are the way they conduct themselves in the media and on the field.

2022-12-13T07:58:40+00:00

Rowdy

Roar Rookie


My thoughts are you shouldn't have said the bit about the timing being Sus. Just call out the disrespect. Period. By saying what you said you equated it with the abuse suffered. I hear Candace isn't well liked in some quarters. Fair enough if true, l don't know much about the soap opera. But the kids. Fair dinkum.

2022-12-13T05:08:47+00:00

Takeadeepbreath

Roar Rookie


That really hurts....????????????....you are hilarious.

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