Outrage is ruining our game

By Marnie Cohen / Expert

Tom Boyd announced his retirement last week at age 23, effective immediately.

There was a mixed response to the news.

Many fans were thankful for his unforgettable fortnight in the final two weeks of the 2016 season that won the Western Bulldogs a second flag.

Others wished him nothing but success in his future endeavours.

Too many people were outraged at his decision to walk away from AFL after 61 games, especially after all the Bulldogs did to lure him over from the Giants.

Those people forgot to read beyond the tweet that accompanied the Bulldogs’ press release.

It read, “The physical and emotional toll of AFL football has led Tom Boyd to the decision to immediately retire from the game.”

Boyd said, “My decision to retire now is a reflection of issues I’ve had over the past five years both with physical injury and with mental health, and they have now accumulated to a point where I just don’t have the desire to play or the enjoyment of the game I used to have.”

Since winning the 2016 premiership, the Dogs have virtually fallen off the AFL radar, largely due to injury but also because they seem to have lost the spark and enthusiasm that led them to the flag.

And too many people seem to think that has fallen on Boyd’s shoulders to the point where his mental health is so bad he is walking away from the game.

His talent is a great loss, and it’s even sadder that we are constantly letting outrage beat out the best this game has to offer.

Only on Thursday afternoon, after Boyd made the decision to retire, did we decide to replay his highlight packages from the preliminary and grand final of 2016.

(AAP Image/Julian Smith)

There is a simple reason why outrage wins every time.

Negativity sells.

We claim to hate it, yet we feed the beast at the same time.

Outrage is ruining the AFL.

The poor state of the game doesn’t solely lie on the quality of play or the lack of goal-kicking; we are choosing to constantly talk about and highlight the worst parts of the sport and dismiss the rest.

Last week was dominated by Dane Rampe and his bizarre decision to climb the behind post in an attempt to put off Essendon’s David Myers, who was kicking for victory after the siren against Sydney last Friday night.

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you will know that every discussion, every tweet, every expert and every fan’s comments have been driven by the Dane Rampe incident the entire week.

Bizarre? Yes.

But does it call for extreme outrage and over-analysis that took over the whole week? Probably not.

A close second to the outrage over Rampe’s actions was outrage over the match review officer’s decision to not suspend Geelong’s Gary Ablett or Fremantle’s Nat Fyfe for throwing elbows at opposition players.

Also a worthy discussion point, but the anger and outrage over something that wasn’t going to be overturned hit new levels.

The outrage comes from a reasonable place – one of concern for the integrity of the game, demanding transparency from higher authorities around how we reach certain conclusions over another.

The Rampe case is a brilliant example.

The umpire on the evening gave it the all clear and he received support from AFL CEO Gillon McLachlan the following day on radio.

And within 24 hours of Rampe and the Sydney Swans were issued a please explain for his actions.

Amazing to think that a little communication could’ve saved the headache and week of back and fourth – communication for the AFL’s behalf and ours.

Outrage and meltdowns aren’t achieving anything and there needs to be a way for clearer communication between higher authorities, clubs, players and fans.

I’m not suggesting we dismiss these things, but the outrage grew so big that it took focus away from some of the most important and most amazing things in football on the weekend.

(AAP Image/Tracey Nearmy)

What we should’ve been talking about in great depth is what happened at the MCG the following day.

Another fight broke out at the conclusion of Collingwood’s clash with Carlton and resulted in a number of fans sentenced to a five-year ban.

That was the important issue of the week.

Not Dane Rampe’s decision to climb a behind post, nor Gary Ablett recieving the all clear from the MRO.

The issue that is threatening the safety of fans week in and week out should’ve been on the top of the agenda and discussed in great depth over the week.

And every week it may unfortunately occur.

But hopefully with more airtime and more discussion focused on these issues we will see harsher penalties like what was handed down this week to phase it out of the game.

The outrage also overshadowed the incredible act of kindness and sportsmanship displayed by Hawthorn veteran Jarryd Roughead.

Playing against Footscray in the VFL last Sunday afternoon, his opponent Reuben Williams took the opportunity to ask the great man for a mini masterclass during the game.

It was such a special moment that barely got its time in the sun following the conclusion of Sunday’s game.

And what about this great grassroots moment? I had no idea this occurred until a fellow tweeter showed it to me five days following the event.

And what can we expect in the week ahead?

Liam Ryan’s spectacular mark overshadowed by teammate Nathan Vardy’s poor decision making?

Our sport is special.

It boasts moments of brilliance, heartache, disappointment, joy and everything in between.

We shouldn’t let outrage and anger get in the way of appreciating our game and everything it has to offer.

Simply embrace it.

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The Crowd Says:

AUTHOR

2019-05-24T08:18:52+00:00

Marnie Cohen

Expert


Very kind, thank you

2019-05-23T15:05:20+00:00

Gordon P Smith

Roar Guru


Is it too cliche to start my comment with "I am OUTRAGED at your article!"? (I'm not, I promise! You did your usual superb, erudite job!) Seriously, as an American who's inundated with political outrage over the cheese-puff-in-chief we somehow allowed to assume the Oval office and the politics of outrage his people have embraced, it's fascinating to read the very same issues affecting my friends on the opposite side of the globe. It either means that human beings are generally getting more "trigger-happy", or the worldwide media connections are spreading the disease globally.

2019-05-23T00:59:12+00:00

Peter the Scribe

Roar Guru


Yes confused, massive hands, shoulders and chest. A man mountain actually.

2019-05-23T00:52:48+00:00

Confused

Guest


I shook Barry Rounds hand, my hand looked like a barbie dolls hand. A football would be like a tennis ball to Barry. Massive hands; Trump would be so jealous.

2019-05-22T23:47:38+00:00

JamesH

Roar Guru


BTW, the only other rule I could find under which the umpire could have paid a free to Rampe is 17.12(g) where a player 'engages in misconduct'. It's probably not ideal to be relying on that one though.

2019-05-22T23:40:53+00:00

JamesH

Roar Guru


I wouldn't call it a 'rule change' per se. More a rule clarification. I think the intent of the rule was to stop players from deliberately interfering with a post and Rampe accidentally found a loophole. Of course, they could have just come out and said that climbing the post counts as 'intentionally shaking' it. But that would have required an admission that the wrong call was made, which we all know has never happened under Gil's watch.

2019-05-22T08:20:52+00:00

Ron The Bear

Roar Rookie


There is no accountability at the AFL. The game is in a poor state and patrons have no recourse, so it’s natural that they become frustrated and angry. Why is nobody in the media questioning Steve Hocking’s apparent anti-Midas touch? The AFL has become a money-making concern far above all else and it’s a great shame. I’ve been going week in, week out for more than forty years and but for the love of my club, I’d give it away tomorrow.

2019-05-22T06:21:33+00:00

Pope Paul VII

Roar Rookie


Sure but they must know I'm too lazy to find them?

2019-05-22T06:09:58+00:00

Fat Toad

Roar Rookie


I think that one of the worse examples of bad sportsmanship was the incident involving Vardy and Rioli taunting Gawn while he was apparently injured face down on the ground. I can not understand why they were not reported and suspended. It is exactly the reason why any mother would not want her kids involved. By the way great, great mark by Ryan!!!!!

2019-05-22T06:00:30+00:00

Fat Toad

Roar Rookie


I am sure that your hunger can be satisfied by following a couple of journalists rarely bothered by supporting their articles and comments with any substance.

2019-05-22T05:41:02+00:00

Pope Paul VII

Roar Rookie


I'm outraged this is such a slow news day.

2019-05-22T03:59:33+00:00

Fat Toad

Roar Rookie


I really don't think that it needs a rule change. Just cover it under unsportsman-like conduct. I am unsure about the complete AFL rules, as I have never read them front to back, but rather than have a rule saying do not climb the goal post, perhaps one that covers attempting to gain an unnatural advantage?

2019-05-22T02:31:15+00:00

Fat Toad

Roar Rookie


It was really great.!! But since you opened the door.... The AFL has fined everyone and sundry over the last few weeks. I can not see why Vardy and Rioli are not fined or even better suspended for unsportsmanly conduct in going any poking and taunting Max Gawn lying on the ground and obviously injured. The only reason I can think of as to why both of them are not in front of a committee is even Simpson got into Vardy about it. Ryan's hanger: what a great advertisement for the game - priceless. Vardy and Rioli: exactly the sort of behaviour that would put my wife of letting our kids play.

2019-05-22T01:53:51+00:00

Peter the Scribe

Roar Guru


Exactly and they are still silent on changing the rule wording to thou shalt not climb the post! Rampe should go up it again this week. Might get him higher than Cox should he return.

2019-05-22T01:34:07+00:00

JamesH

Roar Guru


That's the problem. But then the AFL hands Rampe a fine for doing it, while telling us all he didn't break the rules and no free kick was warranted. What is anyone supposed to make of that?!?

2019-05-21T11:20:08+00:00

Laurence O'Connell

Guest


Well said Marnie Cohen. Excellent article. I couldn't agree more. I am a long time passionate footy fan but now just watch the matches and avoid all the peripheral negativity and sensationalism. Best wishes and keep up the good work.

AUTHOR

2019-05-21T11:05:11+00:00

Marnie Cohen

Expert


There are many levels to the “issues” at North Melbourne and the finger can’t really be blamed at one person (ie. Brad Scott) because everyone loves the coach when they’re winning !

2019-05-21T06:27:17+00:00

Goalsonly

Roar Rookie


Hutchy has become a rich and powerful man and he can afford to be insensitive.

2019-05-21T06:05:12+00:00

Pope Paul VII

Roar Rookie


Hi Marnie. Not sure how it goes with twitter but abusive people on the NM facebook sites are regularly banned. What is tiresome is the continual "Sack Scott" comments, "insert name here" is a spud, ludicrous trade talk (Cunnington!? Brown!?) and general tactical advice like AFL is easy.

2019-05-21T05:55:47+00:00

Pope Paul VII

Roar Rookie


Very interesting MM. I was in a South Melbourne zone and my dad was the only person I knew who supported them back then! Well done with your Mum. My Mum is still a ruthless tipster at the age of 92. She is partial to just about everyone but The Roos! Very out character compared to the rest of her life but footy is footy to her and there is no room for sentiment.

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