Why must there always be a problem? Big four weeks loom for Eels players and fans

By Mary Konstantopoulos / Expert

As an avid Seinfeld fan, there’s always an appropriate George Costanza quote that summarises how I’m feeling.

After the Parramatta Eels beat the Penrith Panthers on Thursday night 34-10, I was elated. Nathan Cleary got sent off. The Eels remained in the hunt to finish in the top four. Mitchell Moses was in exceptional form, kicking a scintillating 30/20 in the first half. Things were looking good.

But then, the next day, amid conversations about how long Cleary would sit on the sidelines for after his tackle on Dylan Brown, it was also announced that Moses would be out for four weeks with a dislocated finger. All I could think of was George:

“Why must there always be a problem?”

The injury to Moses puts some Eels fans in a challenging predicament given that the replacement for Moses will be Jake Arthur. Without dramatically changing the structure of the team, indeed he is the only viable replacement.

Over the years, I’ve felt many emotions about my club. I’ve felt pain, anguish, elation, joy and pride. Rarely have I felt embarrassed to be an Eels fan.

But when I sat in the stands for the Eels match against the Sydney Roosters and heard fans booing when Jake Arthur’s name was announced over the loudspeaker, I was embarrassed. And then I was angry.

Regardless of what you think of Jake’s ability, he is a teenager who has been around the club since he was a tween. He does not select himself, and the fact that some fans decided it would be appropriate to boo him, even though he barely took the field, speaks to a certain rabid energy that many of our fans have because of how long it has been since the team won the premiership.

This rabid energy is unkind, unnecessary and not behaviour I want associating with our club.

But now, given the position of the Eels on the ladder, how will these same fans respond to the inclusion of Arthur? Will they continue to boo him or will they grow up and support Arthur and the team as they push towards the finals and perhaps even a top four position?

Anything other than support may sabotage Parramatta’s hopes for a successful finals campaign.

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In an article for the Sydney Morning Herald this week, Michael Chammas wrote about a potential disconnect between the Parramatta Eels football team and the Parramatta Eels as a club. The article also highlights a potential disconnect between the team and the fans, citing the example of the number of Panthers players who stayed on the field after their defeat last Thursday and the lack of Parramatta players.

I don’t really buy into this idea. I know how passionate these players are and how much they care about the fan base, but given the behaviour of some of our fans over the last couple of weeks, I certainly don’t blame any of the players for being miffed.

Not only has one of their own players been booed for simply being selected and for having the audacity to be the coach’s son, but following the Eels’ loss to Brisbane there was some fairly disgraceful commentary about our captain, Clint Gutherson.

I will be the first to admit that Gutherson’s form this year has not been as good as in previous years. Could it be the security of a long-term contract? Could it be a leadership burden following the last two years of a pandemic? Could it be that he has a new baby at home and is not getting as much sleep as he needs to?

For the last couple of seasons Gutherson has been the Eels ‘energy’ barometer. While not the most talented player, his work ethic, fitness and commitment have always made him a leader at our club.

For some fans, a down year for Gutherson has been enough for them to call for him to be got rid of and sent to pasture.

As fans we demand loyalty, but only when it works for us.

I understand the frustration Parramatta Eels fans have. I want a premiership just as much as the next fan.

But we are currently supporting a team that has made the finals four out of the last five years.

The 2022 season has been up and down, but it is still not over yet. The Eels have a tough run home but are still in the mix for finishing in the top four.

This is the part that I find the hardest to understand. Eels fans support a successful team that has so much to be proud of, including a new facility at Kellyville, the incredible CommBank Stadium and a Women’s National Rugby League team.

There are some fans who would be thrilled with where Parramatta has finished in the last five years. That’s certainly not to accept mediocrity and not to push the club to be better, but surely there is a middle ground between pushing the club to be the best it can be and resorting to booing the coach and his son.

The Parramatta Eels have a big month of footy coming up. But it’s not just the players, it’s the fans too.

The Crowd Says:

2022-08-04T05:10:38+00:00

Mark

Guest


Well said Mary. Too many keyboard warriors that confuse passion with criticism. Hey, I'm just offering constructive criticism is their moniker. I've discove4red that when people continue offering constructive criticism to individuals, at some point it just feels like criticism for that individual. I'd love to meet these people in 'real life' and find out what their true passions are. Are they regularly putting people down or are they offering encouragement. Lets bring the positivity as you consistently do Mary. thanks.

2022-08-03T23:34:04+00:00

Andrew01

Roar Rookie


They are booing at his selection because they don't think he was in the best 17 for that game. The fans weren't wrong. I have no beef with Jakob, he is an ok back up half and is young so may get better. But the coach had moved Dylan Brown from 5/8 to accommodate JA and fans didn't agree. Dylan Brown had been having a break out season and quite frankly since he got moved out of 5/8 for a couple of weeks, his form has not come all the way back.

2022-08-03T10:46:51+00:00

JennyFromPenny

Guest


What could be a worry is that Jakob has only been part of win over three sides, Warriors twice, Gold Coast twice, and Newcastle once.

2022-08-03T09:08:37+00:00

Danielle Smith

Editor


As long as he’s finished with the Penske file :laughing:

2022-08-03T09:06:52+00:00

PeterCtheThird

Guest


But you did say “that’s something he has to wear”, which gives every appearance of condoning the booing. That was your opinion. That is why I directed the question to you. If you don’t approve of booing a player because of the coach’s actions, excellent!

2022-08-03T09:02:02+00:00

PeterCtheThird

Guest


So, if it’s the coach, why was the booing not sprayed at the players in general and not specifically at young Arthur? Sounds like making excuses for something which should simply not have happened.

2022-08-03T06:51:02+00:00

Big Daddy

Roar Rookie


Yes I do have children and they both played sport . You may better directing your question at the fans who did the booing rather than me as my opinion is only an opinion . I haven't booed him or any other player from any team . Besides that I have no public profile so my reputation is not the one in question .

2022-08-03T06:10:39+00:00

Andrew01

Roar Rookie


I will acknowledge that i wasn't in the stadium the night Arthur was boo'ed but i haven't heard it before and i haven't heard it since. I think the story as a whole has been blown way out of proportion and I am sure it will get more of a run this weekend. Presuming there was booing, it would have been directed at Brad not Jake. And presuming fans are allowed (should be allowed) to show their displeasure with an aspect of the club when they want to; from that perspective, they should be allowed to boo. It is up to Brad as coach to decide, does his son have the ability to decompartmentalize it, realise it for what it is (i.e not aimed at him for the most part) and concentrate on his game? If the answer is yes, pick him if you think he belongs. if not, don't pick him - you are setting you and your son up to fail.

2022-08-03T05:56:01+00:00

PeterCtheThird

Guest


Your nom du league is Big Daddy, so it is possible that you have a child somewhere. If that child plays a sport and is booed by spectators (hardly “fans”) because of something you their father has done, would you regard that as fair and reasonable? If “yes”, please justify.

2022-08-03T02:51:48+00:00

Terry Polious

Roar Rookie


Mary, do you think we can progress past the quarter finals this year? We pushed Penrith hard last year but you never felt like we could quite do it? I really want to see both the NRL(M) and NRLW teams give it a shake this season

2022-08-03T01:13:53+00:00

astro

Roar Rookie


I dont think Parra can claim bad luck...NRL Physio tweeted the other day, stats on the clubs which have suffered the most major injuries (5+ weeks recovery) in 2022. The Eels have had 5 major injuries this season. The Storm have had 14! Roosters and Rabbitohs have had 10. So, yes, the Moses injury is unlucky, but its nothing other clubs haven't dealt with or worse.

2022-08-03T00:29:19+00:00

Big Daddy

Roar Rookie


I've got no skin in this argument but I'd you compare the pair and look at the Cleary' s and the Arthur's , actually every father wants his son to play at the top level . Obviously Nathan had been a standout and deserves his spot. Young Arthur certainly has a long way to go before he achieves that level, but supporters are a funny lot and the booing of young Arthur is most likely directed at the coach as his perceived favouritism towards his son and that's something he has to wear . Manly this week so a loss you could nearly guarantee what's going to happen .

2022-08-02T22:46:29+00:00

Tony

Roar Guru


Hi Mary. Perhaps George should be appointed as the assistant to the NRL's travelling secretary. If it's good enough for the Yankees.....

2022-08-02T22:45:21+00:00

Duncan Smith

Roar Guru


There's been a problem since 1986.

2022-08-02T22:13:45+00:00

farkurnell

Roar Rookie


Eels fans … they’d boo Santa Claus and arrest him for trespass

2022-08-02T21:36:59+00:00

TA

Roar Rookie


If it wasn`t for bad luck Eels wouldn`t have any luck at all. Seriously though they are a boring lot to watch, dour and predictable. I wish they could put some flair into their game take some risk and play fast. Fans will lap it up.

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