An open letter to Eels fans: Dare to dream on this tale of two Grand Final journeys

By Mary Konstantopoulos / Expert

Dare to dream, Parramatta fans. Dare to dream.

That’s my advice ahead of a historic day on Sunday when the Parramatta Eels will contest the NRL men’s and women’s grand finals.

I’m still very much at a loss for what this means for me as a Parramatta fan, but I will do my best.

Back in 2016 when it was discovered that the Eels had been involved in systemic and ongoing breaches of the salary cap, the club was in chaos. There was a 12-point penalty imposed by the NRL, five board members were deregistered and the club was hit with a $1 million dollar fine.

It was a dark time in the history of the club.

In my mind I can still see a photo that was taken of the playing group the morning the sanctions were to be announced, arms around each other at the club’s then facility, Richie Benaud Oval.

Despite having one of the biggest fan bases in the NRL, the Eels were a basket case.

Much has changed since then, and it’s important to acknowledge that the journey to these grand finals has been just that; a journey.

It’s also important to acknowledge the people who have stood with the club during those challenging times and the administrators who were key in turning the club around. That acknowledgement extends to the current board and executive team but also to former CEO Bernie Gurr and board member Max Donnelly.

There’s another person that has been a constant during that journey, and that is Eels coach Brad Arthur.

(Photo by Cameron Spencer/Getty Images)

Arthur has copped some unfair criticism this year. There have been suggestions that he has lost his dressing room, that he can’t galvanise the team for important games and, most despicable of all, that he’s engaged in nepotism, which I find deeply offensive, as it goes to the very heart of Arthur’s character and suggests he would put the interests of his son ahead of his team.

This season is as much a reward for Arthur as it is for his team, who have silenced the critics to make the club’s first grand final since 2009.

Just on that team, almost every player has improved under Arthur’s tenure, and it’s been a pleasure to watch them this year. Shaun Lane is having a career-best season, Isaiah Papali’i joined the club on a small deal and was offered a much bigger deal by the Tigers due to his improvement. Clint Gutherson signed up as a laughing stock and now he is the energy barometer for the entire team.

Had the Eels not gone through the pain of 2016, the club would be in a very different position. No doubt there would still be scuttling at the board level and challenges from a financial perspective, so it would likely mean no new shiny stadium and little chance of seeing the development and new centre of excellence at Kellyville come to life.

But more importantly, the strong position the club is in now also gave it the chance to bid for an NRLW licence. With the financial position the club was in back in 2016, putting a bid in for an NRLW team would have almost been negligent.

But in 2021, when the NRLW team arrived, it felt like our club was finally whole.

(Photo by Albert Perez/Getty Images)

Despite winning only one game in the regular season, no doubt the NRLW players took inspiration from what the men achieved on Friday night to beat the undefeated and reigning premiers, the Sydney Roosters. Perhaps with the NRLW team playing before the men on Sunday, they can repay the favour and inspire them right back.

Players to keep an eye on in this team include Gayle Broughton, a former New Zealand sevens player who is electric every time she touches the ball. Simaima Taufa may be quiet on the field but leads by example, making tackle after tackle after tackle. Then there’s our halves combo of Ash Quinlan and Tayla Preston, who didn’t know each other before the season started and are now leading the team around with confidence.

There’s also Kennedy Cherrington, who is an absolute vibe. If you don’t believe me, check out the photo of her when she scored the matchwinning try to secure the Eels finals spot.

Grand Finals do not come around often, so this week is one to be enjoyed. The last time Parramatta won a grand final, I was nothing but a star in the sky.

The last time Parramatta played in a grand final, I was in third-year university, cheering on the likes of Todd Lowrie, Matt Keating and Luke Burt. I am now 10 years into my professional career and ready to cheer on Reagan Campbell-Gillard, Dylan Brown and Maika Sivo.

If you are lucky enough to have secured tickets to the game on Sunday, I strongly encourage you to be there for both games.

While the crowd might even out by the time the NRL decider starts, Eels fans will certainly outnumber Knights fans for the NRLW grand final. Let’s make our voices heard.

Regardless of the results on Sunday, my plan is the same: attend the grand final; head back to CommBank Stadium, win lose or draw; and then be there for the player appearances the next morning, win lose or draw.

It’s been a joyous season in 2022. If I’m lucky, come Sunday night I’ll be able to declare ‘ding dong the witch is dead’.

The Crowd Says:

2022-09-28T22:09:25+00:00

Cybapete

Guest


on stats penrith should win but their desire is a match our desire is a flamethrower

2022-09-28T09:24:39+00:00

Khun Phil

Roar Rookie


Great article,Mary,and I hope you can utter that same phrase Big Jack did on that glorious day/night in 1981.I was at the SCG and afterwards at the leagues club.It is something I will never forget and hope those Eels fans who have never experienced the joy of a GF win,can celebrate long and hard on Sunday night. I have been lucky enough to have attended each of the GF wins(plus a few losses!)but will be cheering on from another country this time.Go the Eels!

2022-09-28T04:45:03+00:00

Mike Tuckerman

Expert


Carn the Eels!

2022-09-28T04:27:52+00:00

Muzz

Guest


Mary, The Eels are a big chance to win it. The majority of the team are in career best form. They are hungry, there is a never say die attitude and plenty of self-belief. They will go set for set with the Panthers and pinch it in the dying minutes. Good luck and enjoy the day.

AUTHOR

2022-09-28T04:21:14+00:00

Mary Konstantopoulos

Expert


I might write that one next week, Andrew!

AUTHOR

2022-09-28T04:20:49+00:00

Mary Konstantopoulos

Expert


Thank you Duncan!!

AUTHOR

2022-09-28T04:20:26+00:00

Mary Konstantopoulos

Expert


Hard agree.

AUTHOR

2022-09-28T04:20:05+00:00

Mary Konstantopoulos

Expert


Just maybe!!

2022-09-28T02:54:27+00:00

Andrew01

Roar Rookie


Fingers crossed Mary. I think you touch on something there that deserves its own piece when it is all said and done. And that is the improvement in the individual players under Brad Arthur. Whether it is the young players coming through like Papali'i, Brown or Penisini - who have all grown and improved quickly, which you would hope they would given their respective ages. A Moses who has just grown from year to year, Or players like Sivo who didn't debut til his mid 20's, or players like Lane, RCG and Junior Paulo who came to the club/came back to the club in the middle of their career and their game has gone from strength to strength. You could say just about every player in the squad has improved under their time with Arthur in some way, and that has to matter.

2022-09-28T00:03:07+00:00

Dionysus

Guest


I am probably as far away from being an Eels fan as I could possibly be. I cannot forget or forgive so easily all of the cheating that seems to have quickly gone away or the relative lack of punishments they received. So no, I am not an Eels fan but when it comes down to an Eels v Panthers Grand Final, I have to hope the Eels win. There I said it!

2022-09-27T23:57:31+00:00

Duncan Smith

Roar Guru


I hope Parra win for you Mary and all the other long suffering fans. I'm old enough to remember when Parra first became good in the late 1970s, and they were exciting times. Hope they can make all the fans happy this Sunday.

2022-09-27T23:24:01+00:00

matth

Roar Guru


"As for the guys, what a frustrating season it has been". I wish my team had as frustrating a season as yours!. Good luck to Parra, I'm hoping for the double.

2022-09-27T23:14:24+00:00

kk

Roar Pro


The Dean Widders coached NRLW Parra team warm the cockles of my eighty-six year old heart. The continuous flow of team spirit is a perfect mix with the exceptional skills on tap. May the Steeden bounce their way. Delighted to see Kasey Badger with the whistle. I rate her tops of all whistle blowers. Note. I am a member of the C-BRLFC.

2022-09-27T22:53:44+00:00

Shinboner 1971

Roar Rookie


I have been watching the Parra girls play all season and have been very impressed with them, even though they got off to a bad start they have improved in every game and now look like a very tight, well drilled unit. Front and centre is our Captain Simaina Taufa who reminds me of “Mr Perpetual Motion Mr Price” because she is always in the game, continually takes the heavy hits but refuses to buckle and gives 100% for the full 70 minutes, she is a very inspiring leader, much like Ray Price in the 1980’s. I think if they can replicate last week performance against the Roosters we are a very good chance. As for the guys, what a frustrating season it has been, but we have made it to the big dance, we are playing some of best football at the right time of the season for a change. We have proven this year that we can beat the Panthers, hopefully the occasion doesn’t frighten us and we can go out there on Sunday night and do it again. Go Parra. :happy:

2022-09-27T21:56:49+00:00

The Barry

Roar Guru


Good luck Mary - enjoy the week and Sunday will take care of itself… :thumbup:

2022-09-27T20:50:44+00:00

jimmmy

Roar Rookie


I would not miss the NRLW for anything. I admit I am on the Knights bandwagon but Parra were everything you want in your footy team last week. Resilient, smart, tactically good and they were good enough to convert nearly all their chances. Should be a ripper.

2022-09-27T20:28:14+00:00

The Sporacle

Roar Rookie


Maybe, just maybe we do a double, a lot has to go right though. Maybe people will lay off BA possibly, don't think so though. Maybe..... I'm happy that we made the GF and that's enough for me....Maybe :thumbup:

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