No one person is bigger than the game

By gatesy / Roar Guru

This week we have had a massive example of people taking sides.

Israel seems to be trying to position himself as some form of martyr.

You are a rugby player, mate, with a lifespan of 10-15 years. Our game has endured for 150 and will keep doing so, so please don’t try to put yourself above the game

Having travelled extensively through Polynesia and Melanesia, I have seen the legacies of what a lot of those god-bothering missionaries left behind in the 19th and 20th centuries and, frankly they have a lot to answer for.

Allow me to introduce myself – I am a 66-year-old male, who came to Christianity on day one – I was born and baptised into the Catholic church, I had a traditional Catholic upbringing – I went to Catholic Schools from the age of five to 16 when I joined the Navy.

I went to mass every Sunday – I did my stint as an altar boy, riding my bike to morning mass at 6am on weekdays and doing Sunday mass.

My father, a magnificent operatic Baritone, ran the choir at our church at Gymea (St Catherine Laboure), for many years and inspired many with his beautiful work.

I am one of ten children and my parents were deeply devoted Catholics. Notice that I don’t say Christian, because there are many variants, even potentially mutants of that word, and most traditional Catholics understand that the word “Christian” takes many forms and a lot of them not very deeply rooted in the teachings of Jesus.

Most Catholics don’t place a lot of stock in the Old Testament – others do, and therein lies many of our differences.

Even after joining the Navy, my faith continued with its deep Catholic/Christian convictions, and I continued to attend Mass for many years, until I lost my faith – not in Christianity, or my god, or Catholicism, just the weak humans running our church – but I have never lost my faith in my God, and I, as we all do, have my own way in communicating with him (or her).

The last time I went to mass, there was just no meaning to it, so I now conduct my faith in my own highly personal way.

I never felt the need to preach to my brethren, and that is the rub.

We live in one of the most democratic places on earth, where everyone is entitled to their own beliefs.

Israel Folau (Photo by Tony Feder/Getty Images)

But that right, in itself, carries certain responsibilities – and one of those is that we all live in peace and harmony.

I may or may not know what my neighbour believes, and nor should I care, as long as my neighbour is a relatively good person, a good citizen and a good neighbour, and does not constantly seek to influence my beliefs, and if he or she is not, I will just move on and ignore them.

If you don’t, can’t or won’t subscribe to that view of democracy, then may I suggest you move to a more totalitarian society and give that a go for a while.

My beliefs are just that – beliefs, and I decide what they are and I live and die by them, and if my neighbour doesn’t like them, or agree with them, so be it…. and vice versa (and that is the important bit).

I respect that my neighbour has whatever beliefs that he has and I am not going to bother trying to change that. I am certainly not going to tell him that he will go to Hell, if he doesn’t repent for this, that or the other foible.

Israel, you have turned this into a crusade that is, frankly totally unnecessary.

The simple issue here, is that you and your people just do not understand – that in a country like ours, there are a zillion differing views, and no matter how deep your conviction runs, they are only views, among the many.

I could rant about a lot of things on social media, but I don’t – there are reasons for this, not the least being that I don’t want to put innocent lives in jeopardy, because of people who can’t handle free speech on social media, either my life or the lives of others close to me. But I say that because there are always consequences to everything we put out in public.

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It’s not your beliefs that we have a problem with – we share them, mostly – it’s just the way you put it out there.

To me, Christianity is a way to live your life, but not necessarily a way to regulate the way that everyone else lives theirs. I, like most people I know, use our Christianity as way to live our individual lives not a way to influence everyone else to live theirs.

There is nothing wrong with keeping a few things to yourself.

And as I started off saying, no man is bigger than the game – if you have to leave, please do so and let us get on with this wonderful game of rugby which has endured for 150 years, without you and which will continue to endure into the future, with or without you. Please understand your place in the scheme of things. You ain’t that important, mate!

Doing so, should put your role into the right perspective.

The Crowd Says:

2019-05-09T13:51:15+00:00

Geoff

Roar Rookie


gatesy, that is by far the best commentary i have read and i have read a lot from all over the MSM to blogs. Your point of live and let live is the crucial point, i think i have read something from the bible : judge not least you be judged and let who is without sin cast the first stone. all this defence of Folua right to free speech ignores the consequences, with rights come responsibly's, and yes you can say what you like, however everyone else is also free to respond to your statement and when you sign a contract and give undertakings to not breech them and then do so, you are an arrogant fool, or so blinded by your hubris you can no longer see the truth, you made your choice now suck it up.

2019-05-09T08:18:08+00:00

Just Nuisance

Roar Rookie


I agree with the sentiment of the article , however I must say that it has all been said before at some stage on this site since the whole sorry saga surfaced. The responses by those who feel Folau has a right to his predjudices under cover of his religion also has a familiarity about it as are the responses of those who feel he doesnt. Alan Jones publically supports him , Clyde Rathbone doesnt. What is a simple case of contractual breach has evolved into a divisive situation both in The Rugby World and between society and indeed societies especially those in the Pacific rim. I hope Folau did not set out to do this deliberately. His actions however strongly suggest some premeditation on his part.

2019-05-09T07:46:14+00:00

Redbeard

Roar Rookie


Gatesy, So you think Izzy is guilty of a High grade offence.? Given that Beale, Slipper and Hunt all scored low to intermediate grade offences? And you don’t think Izzy wasn’t trying to save souls from hell, rather than sending them there.? I’m glad you have some Christian values.

2019-05-09T01:13:08+00:00

concerned supporter

Roar Rookie


Hi Fionn, ''Stalin trained to be a priest in younger life, and most current scholarship notes in the darkest times of the Great Patriotic War again turned to Christianity. Hitler’s quotes, too, indicate he was probably religious until his death too.'' I think you are wrong on both counts.

2019-05-08T22:49:43+00:00

Kashmir Pete

Roar Guru


aussierad Thanks. Good interview. Cheers KP

2019-05-08T14:15:12+00:00

aussierad

Roar Rookie


Glenn, this 33 minutes interview with Nick Farr Jones on Izzy confirms what we already know. Rivetting, honest, sad at times, and courageous. https://soundcloud.com/user-410956050?fbclid=IwAR13Dc4PDYpOkMJKpU1P9Xwc9WAw9eEcfPIuHNnTRWUIsrRWQ_zp8ShR-qs

2019-05-08T14:13:16+00:00

aussierad

Roar Rookie


KP This 33 minutes interview of Nick Farr Jones might give you insight https://soundcloud.com/user-410956050?fbclid=IwAR13Dc4PDYpOkMJKpU1P9Xwc9WAw9eEcfPIuHNnTRWUIsrRWQ_zp8ShR-qs

2019-05-08T13:43:39+00:00

Michael Duncan

Guest


Gatesy, thank you for your considered and thoughtful post. It seems to me that your criticism of Folau's posts is that he has compromised the peace and harmony that formerly had been intact. Granted, freedom of beliefs and freedom from oppression of ones own beliefs form a basis of democratic free societies. However, if Folau believed that his God wished him to post those messages, is he not free to excercise that belief and follow it? I believe he is and suggest that this explains his actions. The upshot of this is a situation of contrasting and conflicting beliefs - yours that ones own beliefs should not be broadcast uninvited and his that this is exactly what should be done if one's God wishes it. I therefore can't see any legal basis for asking him to desist. The 'code of conduct' and contractual alleged breach is a different matter because what is allowable or not is something he signed up for.

2019-05-08T12:47:58+00:00

Gloria

Roar Rookie


Odd reply to my comment.

2019-05-08T11:20:32+00:00

Oblonsky‘s Other Pun

Roar Guru


That actually is totally irrelevant to what I said. The two despots opposing organised Christian churches are competing power structures to the state, is totally different to their personal faith. Stalin trained to be a priest in younger life, and most current scholarship notes in the darkest times of the Great Patriotic War again turned to Christianity. Hitler’s quotes, too, indicate he was probably religious until his death too.

2019-05-08T10:28:45+00:00

concerned supporter

Roar Rookie


BJ Your post has lots of possibles but nil facts.

2019-05-08T09:56:46+00:00

Timbo (L)

Roar Guru


Folau isn't in trouble for what his Priest said. The airline and the Government are separate entities. By that logic you should probably stop putting fuel in your car.

2019-05-08T09:20:36+00:00

BJ

Roar Rookie


That atheist businessman was possibly a Jesuit trained lackey parroting his superiors lies. The truth is that if it weren't for the superstitious prelates and political ambitions of the RCC, western civilisation would have peaked hundreds of years earlier.

2019-05-08T06:30:53+00:00

clipper

Roar Rookie


There is no doubt that there is a lot of good the Catholic church does, and a great majority involved in achieving these aims are good people. Of course there is the flip side of abuse by clergy and repressive schools were you were forced to write with your right hand and it was the devils work if you used the left. Then you get to the developing country not using contraceptives because that's what the Church says (funny the west ignores those messages) resulting in families having children they can't support, the state can't support and the environment can't support and making the spread of AIDS so much easier.

2019-05-08T05:19:40+00:00

concerned supporter

Roar Rookie


Fionn, ''I was rolling my eyes at the oft-repeated nonsense of Stalin and Hitler being monsters because they were atheists (fun fact, read more historical scholarship and they were probably both believing Christians over their entire lives'' Mate , you have had a shocker, Stalin. ''The main target of the anti-religious campaign in the 1920s and 1930s was the Russian Orthodox Church, which had the largest number of faithful. Nearly all of its clergy, and many of its believers, were shot or sent to labour camps. Theological schools were closed, and church publications were prohibited.[1] More than 85,000 Orthodox priests were shot in 1937 alone.[2] Only a twelfth of the Russian Orthodox Church's priests were left functioning in their parishes by 1941.[3] In the period between 1927 and 1940, the number of Orthodox Churches in the Russian Republic fell from 29,584 to less than 500.'' Hitler, ''However, Weikart makes it clear that Hitler’s pro-Christian statements were little more than lip service to his churchgoing constituents. Although Hitler was born and raised in historically Catholic Austria, he lost his faith in the Church at an early age. Weikart writes that the young Adolf was a rebellious student who frequently quarreled with his high school religion teacher and often mocked Christianity in class. Weikart’s excellent command of German is on display when he notes that in Mein Kampf and in private correspondence Hitler frequently used the term Pfaffe, a disparaging German term for a priest, to refer to clergymen. Hitler’s long-established anti-clericalism was evident after his rise to power as well, when Goebbels’ propaganda machine portrayed the Catholic priesthood as dominated by sexual perverts (on a side note, does that tactic sound familiar?). In fact, Hitler’s real views on Christianity were so bizarre that they would actually be amusing in their imaginative eccentricity, if not for the fact that they were part of the worldview of a psychopath whose genocidal policies killed 11 million civilians and unleashed the bloodiest war in history. Weikart writes that Hitler, like his favorite philosopher, Nietzsche, disliked Christianity, but admired the figure of Jesus Christ. In Hitler’s view, Jesus himself was a Roman or Greek (Hitler believed that the ancient Greeks and Romans were the precursors of the Nordic “master race”) killed by the perfidious Jews.'' linhttps://www.catholicworldreport.com/2017/10/26/was-hitler-a-christian-an-atheist-or-neither/k;

2019-05-07T23:54:29+00:00

Hertryk

Roar Rookie


Great well written article.

2019-05-07T22:53:49+00:00

Oblonsky‘s Other Pun

Roar Guru


This thread is disgusting. I was rolling my eyes at the oft-repeated nonsense of Stalin and Hitler being monsters because they were atheists (fun fact, read more historical scholarship and they were probably both believing Christians over their entire lives). But I never thought I would read such ambivalence and even tacit defences of Apartheid on this site. Anyone that has done so should be ashamed of what they wrote.

2019-05-07T21:27:40+00:00

concerned supporter

Roar Rookie


Timbo (L) ''when Henry VIII told the Vatican to shove it,'' Can you elaborate and explain what you mean by shove it?

2019-05-07T12:40:26+00:00

Upfromdown

Guest


Except the convicts aren't just for gay rugby players. Google it.

2019-05-07T12:25:27+00:00

Mr.Media

Roar Rookie


There seems to be a lot of thickheads trying to run the ARU. They don't respect the players, they refuse to allow freedom of religion, do they understand that freedom of religion is a universal right? You say that "no one person is bigger than the game", but what does religion have to do with sport in the first place? They say to keep religion out of government and keep politics out of sport so what's going on? You are dragging religion into sport yourselves!!? Stop dictating what people can say! The only "breach" has been caused by the ARU itself!!! And I bet you can't even remember which verse in the Bible was even quoted!!!!!

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