Emotion in Mendoza: Mates send messages to 'brave' Hoops, Holloway in tears, Gibbon reveals loss of his inspiration

By Tony Harper / Editor

As the Wallabies team and support staff belted out Advance Australia Fair in the dressing room after a stirring TRC win in Mendoza, there was a conspicuous absence, and one that was less so.

The victors joined arms and stood close, but there was a missing link. Captain Michael Hooper was on his way home to Australia having a day earlier told his teammates that he was struggling mentally and needed a break from his high-pressure role as Wallabies skipper.

Hoops was never far from his teammates’ thoughts as they came back from a 19-10 halftime deficit to score five tries and win 41-26. Meanwhile, Matt Gibbon sang the song and his thoughts turned to his granddad Dave Pollock, who passed away earlier this week, days before his grandson wore the cherished jersey.

“It’s a real proud moment for me and also the team because we really wanted to put in an effort that our fans could be proud of and also our captain Hoops,” said stand in captain James Slipper.

“We were thinking about him all day and playing for him.

“To be honest, that was probably one of the more satisfying Tests I played, losing [Quade Cooper to injury], losing Hoops. The way we started the game again put ourselves under pressure but the way we fought back into the game and then wrestled it into our hands it was a proud moment to be a part of.

“We wanted to put it up performance as a team that Hoops would smile about so I’m sure when he looks at the score he’ll have a cheeky smile.”

Coach Dave Rennie added: “It highlights the respect we have for Hoops (Hooper), we talked a lot about him over the last 24 hours – how do you honour a man who’s emptied the tank in every Test over the past decade? It’s by putting in a performance like that in the second half,.

“We talked a lot about the courage that he’s shown and we needed to show the same sort of courage on the field today.”

Nic White was also hoping the victory brought Hooper some joy.

“We woke up Friday for captain’s run and were made aware about lunchtime that Hoops was having some issues,” White told Nine’s Sports Sunday program.

“He’s such a brave guy, really honest and even in a time of need, he’s thinking of the team. That speaks volumes for him.

“He was more worried about the team than he was himself.

“Since then it’s just been about supporting him. He’d be on his way home, hopefully, it will give him a bit of a smile knowing that we got up.

“The two traits, being brave enough to come forward and being honest with himself, where he’s at shows a fair bit of courage.

“They’re the traits that make him the leader he is for the squad, you know, he’s put his body on the line 120 odd times, it’s the reason we look up to him. Not only the team, the staff, and I’m sure a lot of people watching.

“Our thoughts with him, he’ll be on the mend, and hopefully he gets the support he needs and we’ll see him again shortly.”

Rugby players and fans from around the world reacted with praise for Hooper’s decision to seek help for his issues.

While there were heartfelt thoughts for Hooper, it was also an emotional occasion for Australia’s two debutants on Sunday.

It was revealed Gibbon’s grandfather, who took him and his brother in and encouraged their rugby journey during a difficult childhood, passed away this week.

“It was pretty surreal, losing my granddad, he’s the biggest reason why I was playing rugby,” said Gibbon after his late-game cameo. He had been welcomed on the field by pumped-up cheers from his fellow forwards.

“It’s been tough for me really, but I’m really happy with the boys. Really just quite clinical and focusing on rugby really helped me through, obviously getting out in the field helped a lot as well.”

He said he was calm before the game started but his nerves started jangling as he waited on the bench, ultimately replacing Slipper on 72 minutes.

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“I’m not one to really try and play the game too early in my head because I know I can do that sometimes. As soon as we started singing the anthem I was trying to hold back tears. Lifelong dream here really,” he said.

“Watching the game on the bench for most was really getting the nerves jittery, but soon as I got on there I was bloody so excited and all the boys cheering me on, I was bloody happy to be there.

“That last few minutes I was up to my arse trying to make the clean and just doing whatever we can to get over the line, get that bonus point.”

Jed Holloway was another fighting back tears, without much success as his thoughts turned to his wife and daughter.

His eyes misted up when he was interviewed post game, having produced a stellar debut after a long, long wait to wear the Wallabies jersey for the first time.

“It’s been a lot of hard work and a lot of sacrifices gone into this. It wasn’t perfect tonight. I enjoyed the moment and very stoked one that I got to run out there but also I got to share it with a very good friend of mine, Matt Gibbon,” said Holloway.

“I cut bait in Japan and went over to spend time with my wife and meet my child for the first time over in America. And it was a long shot.

“But I still believed in myself and made she believed in me no matter what. She’s American and for her to back me on that… I’m very proud that I can stand here and make her proud tonight and make my parents proud and all the people that I represent.”

The Crowd Says:

2022-08-08T18:47:14+00:00

WINSTON

Roar Rookie


I'm realising more and more that the modern player has a far more stressful challenge than players BC. (Before Comms). A generation ago a player only had to deal with a bad review in a paper. He could wash the pain away with a beer. Like, "hey, just a chappy subjective journo". But not today, you have every tom dick & nobody chucking in their 2 cents worth. And sometimes really nasty vitriolic hateful stuff. It's not good. We all need to be more responsible with our views & opinions. (Having said that, the All Black were quite kak last Saturday)

2022-08-08T09:31:02+00:00

Morsie

Roar Rookie


Rest of the forwards realised they were going to have to do some work once they realised Hooper wasn't there to do a whole lot of the extra stuff they'd forgotten was on their basic task list.

2022-08-08T08:29:06+00:00

Tooly

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No one died ! Thankfully none of these Aussie and Kiwi sooks will ever have to fight in war . 107 years ago some of their NZ forebears scaled the cliffs at Chanuk Bair while the Aussies died at the Nek and Lone Pine trying to take Canuck Bair up the ridge .

2022-08-08T01:25:08+00:00

HiKa

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Hiding the issues from your nearest and dearest because you don't want them worrying about you is all a part of it. If you've got a bit of talent, you'll know what to say and when to say it to keep everyone else none the wiser; and that includes trained professionals - they don't know until you tell them.

2022-08-08T00:40:26+00:00

Reframe

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HiKa, Yes I understand what you are saying and understand exactly what what is going on. I would assume that RA have a sports psychologist on their payroll and wonder where RA's duty of care lies. It would appear that this issue is an ongoing issue and am surprised to a degree that no one picked up any signs, given the mental health education is in the forefront as a health issue. As you say it is what it is. Regardless of what ifs, I hope he gets the help he needs.

2022-08-07T23:48:19+00:00

HiKa

Roar Rookie


When the black dog bites you on the backside and you get to the point where you realize you need help from others to get through it because it's not just going to magically get better all by itself, there is always a recognition that you should have reached out for help sooner. You're trying to hold it all together and just get through on your own resources and if you haven't been there before it's really hard to make the call to say I'm not well, which is why public messaging on mental health is all about making it easier to reach out for help. Even after being down multiple times, it's still very tempting to try to fix it all yourself. If Hooper had said nothing and played on until they got back to Australia, nobody would have been the wiser, but he'd have known in himself that he hadn't been at his best. So, the timing of someone making the call that their not OK and need a hand is just what it is, but the sooner the better.

2022-08-07T22:26:38+00:00

Sofia

Guest


So proud of Michael and the choice he made for the team. Congratulations for the win Boys and Renny!

2022-08-07T16:22:02+00:00

Derek Murray

Roar Rookie


I saw no problem with the penalty try. It was off the back of a series of cynical infringements and a load of fouls in every maul. He called them on it

2022-08-07T16:18:29+00:00

Derek Murray

Roar Rookie


Izzy, that guy who was a hero for all the vulnerable LGTBQ people with his loving and welcoming comments? That Izzy?

2022-08-07T16:17:20+00:00

Derek Murray

Roar Rookie


If you watched the game with a critical eye you’d have noticed the first Argie try was a similar forward pass in a similar position.

2022-08-07T12:26:09+00:00

SLOWFOX7

Roar Rookie


Sincere congrats to the Awessies! And best wishes de Hooper and Cooper. It was even painful for us Argentinians to see Cooper helped off the field (if you watch the video, the crowd and Boffeli applauded him). What happened to Los Pumas? Loss of concentration after that wonderful try? Lack of discipline? Australia never lost its cool? All of these are true. Rennie´s plan for substitutes was perfect. Cheika´s subs did not add anything to a quite efficient Pumas game. The Ref missed 2 forward passes, one for each side. The difference in points should have been smaller, and could have been the opposite. I don´t expect Pumas to overcome this blow in only 1 week´s time. They should be ashamed of that penalty try! Even it they had not commited a few handling errors, and the result was another, it is extremely worrying that they cannot stay focused.....

2022-08-07T11:42:26+00:00

wahwah100

Roar Rookie


That is insulting. I had a work related illness and I remember that one day I was or at least I thought I was ok and the next I was on the floor in tears.

2022-08-07T11:30:38+00:00

Tim J

Roar Rookie


Communication is the key to all relationships, that is why I watch so much Rugby while my wife talks to her friends.

2022-08-07T11:28:03+00:00

Tim J

Roar Rookie


Paul I respected Tooly yesterday for his post, it was genuine about wishing Hoops well and owning up to being over the top. Where as Yabbie is just a genuine bitter person, he needs to have a good look at himself.

2022-08-07T11:19:33+00:00

Tim J

Roar Rookie


Totally correct Paul, a disgusting post.

2022-08-07T11:18:24+00:00

Tim J

Roar Rookie


Greysy, this as low as you can get from him. I cannot understand anyone kicking someone when they are already down.

2022-08-07T11:17:59+00:00

Loosey

Roar Rookie


Then the touchie called it as 4. It was on the coverage.

2022-08-07T11:14:20+00:00

Tim J

Roar Rookie


Tasteless and a vile post Yabbering Yabbie, move onto another site that suits your way of thinking.

2022-08-07T11:07:30+00:00

Paul D

Roar Rookie


Does posting comments like this bring you joy? How f$&@king sad your life must be. I almost pity you.

2022-08-07T10:56:37+00:00

Big Dave

Roar Rookie


You're a terrible human being. Please go away.

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