Lockdowns are hard for everyone, not just single footy players with an 'urge'

By Mary Konstantopoulos / Expert

Apparently lockdowns are particularly difficult for rugby league players.

Last week, a range of penalties were issued to St George Illawarra Dragons players following a party at Paul Vaughan’s house, which not only breached NRL protocol, but New South Wales lockdown laws as well.

Later that week, Jai Arrow also breached NRL protocols while in State of Origin camp by having an unauthorised visitor to his room.

When I heard the news, one word that came to mind was ‘entitled’ and that word has been in my mind again this week.

Given the continued and evolving COVID-19 situation in Sydney, the NRL made the decision on Sunday to relocate all of the NSW and ACT-based teams to Queensland to keep the competition going.

In response, Paul Gallen penned an article asking us all to remember that players are human beings and to consider, in particular, the impact of a hub on the single players.

According to Gallen, “To be stuck in a bubble with nothing but men around you, if you’re a single bloke … there’s going to be urges at times and it’s going to be extremely hard for certain blokes to be alone for up to two months as the competition ends.”

Paul Gallen (Photo by Jason O’Brien/Getty Images)

Gallen has completely missed the mark here – are players incapable of resisting their physical urges? When players are in a hub, are urges at the top of the priority list?

This was a genuine opportunity for an experienced player to talk about the importance of connection and how hard the hub environment is for so many athletes who are travelling around the country to keep our favourite sporting codes alive.

Hubs are difficult for many varied reasons. The New Zealand Warriors had to leave their country for an extended period. Some athletes have families they need to leave behind, with some women involved in the AFL asking sporting competitions to think more broadly about the implications of the bubble for families.

Aaron Woods is toying with the decision not to head to the NRL bubble in Queensland, with his wife due to give birth in a couple of weeks.

It’s not just players either, it is the staff associated with the clubs, administration and officials.

I do have empathy for NRL players, it cannot be easy being in a bubble for such an extended period, but whether the single players’ ‘needs’ are taken care of is pretty low on my list of priorities, particularly when Gallen suggests that for players with families, being separated from them is just like being on tour.

It’s also important to remember the many other athletes who are doing what the NRL players are doing for a fraction of the wage.

NRL players have the benefit of being full-time professionals. Many other athletes do not fall in the same boat.

For example, many Super Netball players are juggling their sporting careers with a career. Sarah Klau from the NSW Swifts is an occupational therapist and Natalie Haythornthwaite is a speech pathologist. There are countless others.

Natalie Haythornthwaite of the Swifts (Photo by Jono Searle/Getty Images)

When these players move into a bubble, they don’t have the benefit of it being their full-time, professional careers, which creates uncertainty and in some cases anxiety.

Athletes perform their best when life on and off the field is in a good place, so how can we expect them to be at their best when placing them in a bubble has such a big impact on their lives away from their sport?

Additionally, while my heart bleeds for players not having their ‘urges’ met, my heart bleeds more for some of the challenging decisions that have had to be made by others.

In the Super Netball, the Swifts and Giants have found themselves shifting from their homes in Sydney, to Queensland, to Melbourne with little notice.

Swifts coach Briony Akle had to make a decision to split up her family, with two of her sons remaining in Queensland and two joining her in Melbourne. West Coast Fever coach Stacey Marinkovick has travelled to the bubble without her 17-month-old son.

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These are the challenges that people are overcoming that I want to read about, not the courage in being able to resist an ‘urge’ for two months.

Across the Aussie sporting landscape, the approach has been to keep competitions alive at all costs.

But at what point does the cost for our players and the people around them become too much?

The Crowd Says:

2021-07-17T12:05:26+00:00

Kent Dorfman

Roar Rookie


have the NRL put a bunch of "floozies" in the bubble so when the boys get their urges, they can get them attended to without breaking the NRL bubble?

2021-07-14T23:11:47+00:00

Wal

Roar Guru


Hopefully no one takes what I said as an insult to Women because we have come along way (and still have a long way to go) in the language we use. But for some bizarre reason we seem to think young men are these mindless bag of hormones with zero control. On one level it is excusing poor behavior like this. On the other it is dangerous and allows those that feel they have an entitlement to have those urges met regardless of damage caused.

2021-07-14T11:09:55+00:00

eels47

Roar Rookie


Fair enough, that is you opinion. But I challenge you to find a comment I have made in this site having a go at the author without having read the article.

2021-07-14T10:55:32+00:00

GregM

Roar Rookie


who is gunna start the pools for which player is 1st to get sent home after he's busted for punching the clown while in the bubble? Arrow should be at short odds as hes already shown he can't handle his "urges"

2021-07-14T10:40:01+00:00

GregM

Roar Rookie


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2021-07-14T10:20:14+00:00

Hard Yards

Roar Rookie


Leave it with me. I'll see if I can organise some post trauma therapy sessions for him.

2021-07-14T09:34:40+00:00

GregM

Roar Rookie


these players should have a chat with Jason Stevens? Maybe Jason can give them an autographed copy of his book "Worth the Wait True love and why the sex is better"

2021-07-14T09:30:37+00:00

GregM

Roar Rookie


i thought in some men their brain is in their #####, or was it their a$$?

2021-07-14T09:00:52+00:00


When did you last spend 4 mths in a isolated bubble with 200 other women Mary?

2021-07-14T08:06:20+00:00

Kent Dorfman

Roar Rookie


just saw a WW2 docco where a German U-Boat had been at sea for over 4 weeks before sighting a convoy, they then stayed at sea for longer to shadow the convoy & report its location before being involved with the attack. Maybe Mr Gallen can explain how these submariners controlled their "urges" while at sea for an extended period of time surrounded only by men, living in such close proximity while NRL players are unable to control their urges. Gallen is living proof why ex footballers should never be allowed anywhere near a microphone or to have any involvement in the media.

2021-07-14T07:34:01+00:00

Monorchid

Roar Rookie


Urges! Urges? I'm of an age when I'm not sure what you youngsters are talking about. But Mr Gallen clearly understands this issue which doesn't seem to have been adequately covered in the NRL COVID handbook. MaryK says that the word "entitled" occurred to her. I raised this very principle on the rugby union thread of The Roar when the Folau furore was at its height and mostly got slammed. It was a "How dare you?" moment. Not all players, coaches, and other hangers on are breaking the COVID laws and rules. But enough have to maybe make State governments wonder whether their obsequious approach to the NRL competition should continue.

2021-07-14T07:23:07+00:00

JGK

Roar Guru


To be fair, he wasn't venting. It was his blink reaction having been told for the first time while the cameras were rolling.

2021-07-14T06:47:39+00:00

Opposed Session

Roar Rookie


Yeah exactly. I was only speaking about Aust cause it’s rumoured all Pacific nations will enter camp in Aust prior to travel to UK. We can’t get critical shortage needs into Australia like surgeons and they think they are just going to let footy players and staff come and go? Good luck to either prime minister who allows that in light of what’s happening in the world.

2021-07-14T06:46:38+00:00

Albo

Roar Rookie


Yeah ! That poor bugger is just a tad better off than Jai !

2021-07-14T06:38:09+00:00

Kent Dorfman

Roar Rookie


JKG - Bill Hicks at his best 02:46 - 03:55 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULGQZqxTWuw

2021-07-14T06:37:39+00:00

Ben Lewis

Roar Pro


I’m so pleased that you wrote this article Mary; and I couldn’t agree with it more. Spot on the money. I’m pleased you published this before I finished mine; not only because yours is far better, but because my working title was “Paul Gallen is an Idiot” which probably wouldn’t have made it past the editors! :laughing:

2021-07-14T06:24:39+00:00

Devil's advocate

Guest


That attitude spectacularly misses the point Yeah, but the ones who do have it worse off DON'T have a TV network, or sizeable social media platform in which they can vent and cry poor. SJ and others will need to rein it in.

2021-07-14T06:21:59+00:00

Devil's advocate

Guest


Sorry, but that one line left no room for any other interpretation...

2021-07-14T06:21:17+00:00

Kent Dorfman

Roar Rookie


mate pigs at the trough during a rut act better than these players

2021-07-14T05:58:57+00:00

Albo

Roar Rookie


Come on, HY ! There's only so much a bloke can put up with, stuck with a Miss Universe entrant ! Have some empathy .

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