Was Stephen Kearney simply too nice?
By Adam_Vaughan, 21 Jul 2012 Adam_Vaughan is a Roar Rookie
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Greg Bird: NRL Rugby League match, Parramatta Eels V Gold Coast Titans at Parramatta Stadium, Sunday April 24th 2011. Digital pic by Robb Cox © Action Photographics.
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As much as it was a matter of ‘when’ and not ‘if’, Stephen Kearney has received the axe at Parramatta. The announcement really puts into focus just how difficult it is to be a head coach in the NRL.
Consider the reputation of Kearney before he accepted the Parramatta job. He was an assistant at the Melbourne Storm, but he was also Craig Bellamy’s right hand man. He was a very successful coach of the New Zealand national team, winning a World Cup and a Tri-Nations title.
When he decided that he was ready to take the reins of his own NRL team, he was touted as an almost certain success. Bellamy couldn’t sing his praises enough and neither could the Storm players.
The Kiwis were no different, including special guest assistant Wayne Bennett. Anyone who was anyone in rugby league gave Kearney the big thumbs up.
So what went wrong?
One aspect of Kearney’s make up may have been overlooked: he was such a nice bloke. In the last couple of days, that’s all we’ve heard and read about Kearney. The coaching qualities that he apparently possesses have been swept under the rug and all anyone wants to look at is how nice he is to everyone.
It’s almost as if the opinion makers feel sorry for him and instead of criticising the terrible record that Kearney and his Parramatta team have in the past two seasons, they are content in saying that he’s just too nice a bloke for this to happen.
I say he is too nice a bloke to be a coach, and that is why this has happened.
Think about the last time Parramatta were getting beaten, which shouldn’t be too hard. What image do you have of Kearney during the game? What image do you have at half time?
The image I have is of a pensive coach not having much to say in the coach’s box. Not losing control of his emotions. At half time I see Kearney sitting on the same kind of seat that the players are sitting on, almost begging his players to have a dig.
There’s no Wayne Bennett-esque standing in front of players pointing to the ground to emphasise a point. No Craig Bellamy-like spray or theatrics leaving no-one in any doubt as to what he thinks. Definitely no repeat of Des Hasler’s carpentry work on the Parramatta Stadium doors.
Even in the post match press conferences, Kearney seemed either unable or unwilling to vent any anger. He was always looking at the positives to come out of the game or saying that “things need to be addressed” in the coming days.
Even when the Tigers win by plenty, Tim Sheens does nothing but snarl at the journalists. Sheens’ press conferences don’t last too long. Kearney almost asked for follow up after follow up and despite the apparent frustration starting to actually show, he would persist on the “easy does it approach”.
Despite the technical knowledge, vast playing experience and eye for detail that many other coaches in the NRL possess, Kearney didn’t have the nasty side to him that is required to gain the respect he warranted. The most successful coaches in sport all have a mean side to them.
They can come down on a player at the drop of a hat and put the fear of God into the rest of the team by doing so.
They also have the ability to encourage and inspire their chargers. To be a head coach in the NRL is a very difficult job, as you need to have the ability to implement the technical knowledge of the game. But you almost need a psychology degree to be able to manage your players and have them in the best frame of mind to perform consistently at their best.
And sometimes a bit of tough love is what is required. Players tend to take you more seriously when they know you are a genuine threat to their careers.
The ability to be everyone’s friend is a great personal trait to have. But if you want to be a NRL head coach, you need to have a bit of mongrel in you. You won’t have the respect of your players or support staff if you can’t make the tough decisions or put a rocket up your squad when they are playing terrible footy.
You need to be tough but fair. It seems to me that Kearney was too fair on the Parramatta players. I’m not sure they ever saw the tough side of their coach (Luke Burt might be the exception).
As a player, Stephen Kearney led by example. He was hard. He had that mongrel in his playing days. Somewhere along the way he lost that.
I’m sure that Kearney will once again find it but probably after another stint as an assistant, probably back with Bellamy and the Storm. Whether the scars endured over the last two years will ever heal enough for him to take the plunge and become another head coach, we may never know.
If he does, my bet is that we will see a coach to be reckoned with this time. He won’t get another chance otherwise.
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July 21st 2012 @ 3:19am
Dogs Of War said | July 21st 2012 @ 3:19am | Report comment
I don’t think his problem was that he was too nice, it’s just he had a game plan he knew worked in Melbourne, but didn’t adapt it to the players he had at his disposal. So he ended up trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. It was never going to work.
July 21st 2012 @ 7:56am
solly said | July 21st 2012 @ 7:56am | Report comment
That may very well have been the problem.
However, if a good coach is one who can adapt his tactics to the players he has, isn’t reasonable to say that a good player is one who can adapt to his coach’s tactics?
Also, if the players can’t play for their coach, then can they at least play for each other?
July 21st 2012 @ 7:08am
steve b said | July 21st 2012 @ 7:08am | Report comment
Its been said to death but here goes ,,Fitzy employed Ando ,,Fitzy got booted ,,new managtment didn’t like Ando because he had an opinion and was employed by Fitzy so they got rid of Ando ,,Problem starting they employ Kearney who had never coached alone at this level and gave him full control of player retention and purchase..Brain explosion starting ,,he was given to much leway on his own and the board at Parra who know very little about man management thought that he knew what he was doing stood back and let him go for it. And then when the brainwaves worked out he had got it wrong with player purchase and retention it was all to little to late .So then they hoped that somehow the players he had could magically pull something out of the hat,,wrong So then the brainwaves sack him and blame Kearney for the trouble they created in giving him total control ..It was a recipe for disaster .Bentley and cronies should be shown the door with him ..So no i don’t think he was to soft or to nicer guy,,, just way out of his depth and helped along by an unenlightened and under performing board who took to much for granted ..
July 21st 2012 @ 12:13pm
omar said | July 21st 2012 @ 12:13pm | Report comment
The problem with kearney is he tried to turn the eels into the storm. But anyone can tell you para play best wen they play on instinct rather then game plan. I think the biggest mistake he made was he didn’t cut players at the end of last season he should of gone for the players he wanted like adam blair isac luke sika manu and co these guys would die for kearney he should have looked au some of the gun juniors the warriors have so much talent its mad why he didnt with all his nz connections. I think if kearney could have his time over again he would do things a lot different then again im sure a lot of coaches would.
July 21st 2012 @ 4:18pm
William Goat said | July 21st 2012 @ 4:18pm | Report comment
I stopped reading when you asked ‘So what went wrong ?’ he went to Parramatta, I thought it was obvious.
July 21st 2012 @ 4:26pm
Meesta Cool said | July 21st 2012 @ 4:26pm | Report comment
I am sure Steve is welcome back at Storm… I warned him that Eels was wrong choice!. I think he told me that “they can be a good team”… poor deluded Kiwi.!.
July 22nd 2012 @ 1:20pm
oikee said | July 22nd 2012 @ 1:20pm | Report comment
Nice guys finish last, dead right.
I wonder how long Stuart will last, along with Sandow. I see trouble ahead.